Does the idea of trading sex for money bother you?

I’ve tried to be more open-minded as I get more mature, but it still bothers me a little. Sometimes more than a little.

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  • It does to a certain extent, but I don't really have a problem with it. I'm definitely not proud to say it, but I used to be in that... line of business, and I didn't feel good about it. It was a last resort to help out with family shit, and I just... yeah. I mean, I don't think it's an evil business, I just definitely prefer not to do it and I can't imagine others like doing it much, so I don't care for the existence of that trade, I guess. It's hard to put what I'm thinking into words really, but hopefully you get what I mean.

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  • Yeah it bothers me. It just seems so wrong and dirty.

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      No it's not, but here you are telling me that right now, you wouldn't do it for ANY amount of money? That's the first question. Second is... what if you were a high-end only prostitute and got paid a minimum of $20,000 a job? You could live comfortably working once a month of less. What then?

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      @loveslongnails I don't know... no, I wouldn't. I'm happy with my life, and I don't believe in cheating. Especially for money.

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  • They say it is the oldest trade known to man, I am ok with it I think, it will always be present in my opinion. But which part of it bothers You, in what way?

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      Just freaks me out

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      The idea of trading sex for money huh, well some people are like that and they will sell their body, some like it, some are forced to do it for one reason or another. But sex trafficking is what is really horrible, not the people who choose to do it

  • Yes, it does. Because I think that sex is worth more than money. I think it's something special and sacred, and treating it for money or favors cheapens it.

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  • Not really... while I can’t picture a situation where I’d want/need for sex I can see how it has a place for some people. As long as it’s a regulated establishment where the employees aren’t exploited I don’t see why it’s a negative thing when both people are walking away with what they want

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  • it doesn't bother me personally. what bothers me very often in the sex trade is that the "service people" are often not wilful participants but rather people exploited, coerced or doing so under threat of violence

    but two willing participants trading sex for money is not problem to me

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  • No. Not my business what consenting adults do with their genitals and money.

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  • Most of us are pimping ourselves out shd if were not were pompong oof others. People just seem to ethically draw the line at sex but I think it’s dehumanizing the way people are hard for labor as a commodity in the first place. They sell their body someone else profits from what they create then they get a small profit and are expendable. i couldn’t do it but at least escorts make good money. 🤷‍♀️

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  • It does bother me.. How will their children view them? Do they set the right example? Is trading sex for money something they want their children to do? But at times I wonder for those who did it... Is it something they really want to do? Or they have to? It is really necessary?

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  • We needing money does not mean that we can go any extent to make it. It is like we are killing our own conscience as we cant't kill someone else and make money.

    I am not against it however, as we don't know what made them to choose that way.

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  • I really don't care what others do, but I have no interest in being with a prostitute. I know a lot of girls are exotic dancers or sell themselves to help them pay for school. I would be quite upset if my daughter did it.

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  • Yeah I mean it's not completely outrageous like giving birth for money of course but it is slightly disturbing. But then again, we have all sorts of things that one can make money on that aren't really that well seen either. I think it depends on the tolerance the society has, the causes of such activity and of course the outcome.

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  • Because, long ago, when the THOT God visited primitive mankind he told us that the golden rule to live life well shall be: "Thou shall not THOT". It was an amazing comment and down through the centuries it has gone.. one generation to the next... so yeah...

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  • Yeah, it does. I think intimacy should be between two people who love each other, trading it for money with strangers seems odd in my opinion.

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  • It kinda does.
    To me it would feel like I'm throwing in the towel or giving up.
    I've never paid for sex.
    I even took great pride in being able to get a pretty wife even though I always had aa really shitty job.
    It's like an extra challenge.

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  • yeah, Im VERY open minded but that just seems very cheap to me. I wouldn't speak up or tell them that its shitty what they´re doing because its their life and actions, but In my mind its a cheap thing to do.

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  • When a girl is expecting an guys to pay for everything in dates is that so much different?

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  • What do you mean? Is it paying someone to have sex with? If that's the case... it ain't a problem, some men aren't able to get married or even have a girlfriend and they need sex, what do you suggest?

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  • I mean... If certain people are good at something (like sex) I wouldn't suggest their skills be wasted on attachments that they don't want, or aren't capable of forming.

    Just watch out for them crabs

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  • Not really. I'd both are willing and enjoy what happens I don't care. It's only when one side is forced or taken advantage of that it bothers me

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  • Everyone needs to pay the billss either way you look at it, we sell our bodies for money. Or rent it out most of the week. I don't think I could ever do it, but if that's what they like, so be it.

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  • Not one bit. Even though it just doesn't feel right to me, I cannot produce the logical difference between buying apples from the grocery store and buying sex from a service provider.

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  • No, quite the opposite, I am very thankful we have prostitution. I even lost my virginity to a prostitute many years ago.

    And if it became legal everywhere, it would have an amazingly positive effect on society as a whole.

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  • Personally yes, but much like recreational marijuana and sports betting, eventually it will be legalized.

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  • Not really. Considering we already have porn, and it's an industry, by legitimizing this, we could hope to put better regulation.

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  • As long as it is between fully consenting adults, it's their business.

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  • I think it's depressing, but I get why it happens. I don't think less of people for doing something that makes me sad lol...

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  • Honestly it's not my business what consenting adults do, but I personally find it a little sad.

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  • That depends. How much are these women going to pay me?

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  • Not for moral reasons, but it pisses me that others have to work for their money and they get it the easy way

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  • I wish it didn't but it does. but this always happens since the being of time.

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  • Would it bother you're charging a service to some that you give others for free and by your personal preference?

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  • Not really. How people choose to make their money is their business, not mine.

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  • Nope, aslong as it can be done safely I don't have a problem with it.

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  • Yeah. I still think it should be legalized, regulated, and taxed.

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  • If it happens between two consenting adults and no pressure when consenting I don't see why it would bother some someone.

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  • Doesn’t bother me. Why pay for something that’s free anyway?

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  • I would never do it... not sure if I think it's always wrong or not, but it definitely seems like something that is often problematic.

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  • I had no problem with it til I was told it was wrong LOL

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  • I wouldn't do it.. but if someone else does it , it's none of my business

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  • Doesn't bother me but I never do it. Why pay for something that's free?

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  • As a man... one way or another we do anyway..

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  • It don't really bother me.

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  • I find it disgusting.

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  • Everything is a negotiation. Sex is no different.

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  • Not very

    It’s none of my business

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  • It bothers the law in most jurisdictions.

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  • Not at all

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  • Yes it does.

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  • Yes it bothers me to think that actually happens.

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  • I wouldn't get involved to that. It's a bit dirty.

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  • I would never pay for sex

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  • No thats not a problem to me.

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  • of course if not that's prostitution

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