Very well put. Esp "Some become sexually muted, others become addicted".
But how does it effect you personally? I'm guessing you're implying negatively. But in what way? Does it make you feel either of those things you mentioned? Sexually muted or addicted? I want to hear how it effects people on an individual basis. I have my own opinions and how it's effected me in various ways but I'd like to hear from people what it has done good, bad, nothing, but for them. :)
@esotericstory Your cue to answer her...but @IfYoureGoingCrazy I'm guessing esotericstory is saying that while it may not affect his thinking personally (because he goes by a different set of values, himself) he can still be peripherally affected by what is happening in culture around him.
@AmandaYVR that's what I was guessing they were getting at but I wasn't sure.
It doesn't affect me as an individual, only the society I live in. I have been a porn consumer for a long time and I wished that it stopped. But sex is everywhere.
Another user told me privately that it is more addictive than cocaine. Just about ruined him, in a way. But he seems to have some distance and perspective from it now finally.
So would you put that as a positive or negative?
Well, I’m not having more sex so probably a negative. LOL
Okay and why do you think that is? Do you think it's an effect on you or people around you?
@IfYoureGoingCrazy you sound like me :)
@AmandaYVR welcome to the “We Need To Have More Sex Club”. LOL
I think fashion fads come and go, and some clothing styles are more revealing. You pretty much have to wear what the stores are offering and no girl is excited about buying clothes out of the grandma section of JC Pennys, so half naked it is. There does not seem to be an in between option. I don’t know that the girls are hornier today but I think the clothing options they wear make guys hornier. That means we want sex more but the girls are not necessarily dressing for the intent of having more sex.
Geez, where do you all live? I have seen titties since I left LA. Now thaaat's a smorgasboard.
@AmandaYVR the Midwest. It’s either mid-drifts or turtlenecks here! Stupid weather!
Ha, oops I meant "haven't seen"
@AmandaYVR so I need to move to LA. LOL.
I asked how it affects the you.Not how you think it affects them. You. If it does or does not positively or negatively and to explain why it does or does not have an affect be it postive, negative or no impact.
As a woman, I’d say it positively affects me because I know if I ever got sick of my job I could always just be an instagram model.
Thanks for answering the question.
Mzash what do you mean By "More power to them"?
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Appreciate your candid honesty. Would you say that you treat those girls as someone you could have a relationship with? Or are the soley kind of used for that quick point to get off? If you feel uncomfortable totally fine not to answer I'm just very curious on a personal and intellectual level.
Unless I know them personally and see them (local) I wouldn’t put any thought into cultivating a relationship.None of the personal friends I have on social media dress scantily (outside of a bathing suit pic where appropriate)
So if you knew them in passing or if they were local you would?
Sure. It’d be like shopping for a used car. You get to see the interior pics before you drive.
Interesting. Thanks for replying and honestly.