I told someone that I really like her and her answer was neither a Yes nor No... Like come on... 🤦🏻♂️
@vsaksham Yeah I know; women can be backwards too, lol. Not even going to deny that. I was just speaking from a female perspective on this. Not to turn this comment into a long thread, but usually if someone doesn't give you a straight answer on if they like you or not, she probably doesn't, but does not know how to reply so it does not hurt your feelings. Trust me, that's not something you have to "think about."
I think both men & women find it hard to admit their intentions. It always seems that everyone wants to keep their cards hidden in case the other person doesn't feel the same way. I'll be different though, @Cynicaldreamer I want to be friends (as you seem to be a very interesting person but I'm not looking for anything else). 🙂
Is there honestly anything we can do to convince you we're not just trying to get a piece?
@MrHealthyHabits Just be yourself and respect us :) And don't try too hard...I cannot speak for all women, but if you treat me like a proper woman, get to know me, and earn my respect and trust? And do not just come to me or perk up when you want sex, yet disappear when I just need a man to talk to and be there for me. That is my main gripe about most (not all) men my age range nowadays: they're so busy or claim they want to get to know me, yet they only seem interested in sex! But when I just want to get to know them or spend time with them? No where to be found or they're "busy."
@PositiveT Hi there! You are absolutely right- no one wants to put their feelings out only to be rejected or laughed out; I get that. But in the big picture, aren't you taking that risk just by talking to the other person or getting to know them? I'm not saying as soon as you meet a girl to tell us, "Okay, I want to date you, you're the one!" But... at least give us some idea of where you can/would see things IF you wanted to get to know us better. Same goes for women (yeah I'm not leaving them out of this). Also, of course we can be friends! If we get along of course
For me and probably other guys, it is hard to admit that we are interested because we are insecure about ourselves. Also, me personally would just like to either be friends or date. I prefer to wait on the last option.
@drindyjones00 "For me and probably other guys, it is hard to admit that we are interested because we are insecure about ourselves." Haha, understandable. If it makes you feel any better, us girls are in the same boat most of the time! I won't even tell you how insecure I can be when it comes to myself, much less guys! Especially saying or doing something stupid.
@CynicaldreamerI feel worse about myself than anyone else probably ever could. So, I understand.
@Cynicaldreamer Yeah I agree the hot and cold game both play does suck sometimes, but I think it's just human nature and most of the time there's nothing we can do about really.Left brain says "They are digging you, step things up a bit" or "I really like this person maybe I should be a little more forward"Right brain says "You're reading too much into things, they are probably just being friendly, or just want sex" or "Ignore them a bit and wait to see if they come to you"We are victims of fate lol
@MrHealthyHabits You want to know what's really bad? I'm left brained so by default I have a tendency to overanalyze everything... I think that gets me in trouble more than anything, lol.
They do think. Even if they are friends they think a lot (sometimes over think and sometimes they can do a mini research too 😉) if he thinks he given the same treatment from the other side.
Are they that good a guy?
why do good girls always go for trash guys? Same question lol
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Well it's simple kinda we approach other female bodies because we want to look like the body that we approach one day the way you look at female body is way different than the way we look at them we don't feel anything sexual about them/and we don't think man's bodies are gross unless it's a Gross man and if you see a Gross woman you would think the same
Hope it was completely understandable
But even then, most men are gross to women. Even the guys that are considered 10/10.
No I don't think so why you think so?
What do you mean?
They said they don't like butt crack and they also said there is muscles in man's body that they like
I mean maybe we are not interested in man's bodies except for our boyfriend's but we don't find other man's body gross unless there is a bad memory of it in a woman mind
So pretty much women don’t actually find men to be sexually attractive. They only get emotionally attached to men.
Ahh another one bites the dust. Believing every women is the same as portrayed on the internet. Go outside buddy... it’s a different world
@adriiiaaanna Denying the obvious are we? https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=A9WZFeA4FzI
Yes cuz you have 103 years experience
No, I spent 95 years in my Moms basement.
I don't think rape fantasy is hot to any woman ever existed in this planet
I don't think you know much about women..
Lol I don't know much about since I'm a woman that makes lots of sense right 😉
Yes, it's ironic, but that doesn't make it untrue
In the level you are that might be true 😄
Um, don't know what that means but ok
Of course you don't
@soniaaaaaaa Rape is a fantasy many women have. The reason for it is that some really enjoy the thought of being taken advantage of and losing all control. It is taboo and it is alluring. They don't want it to actually happen, but some would like to enact a safe rape fantasy some day in their life. It's a psychological thing.Also just so you know, you aren't guaranteed to know your own gender/sex. Having a vagina doesn't mean you understand women. You may understand them more than the majority of men, but you're certainly not an expert because of your anatomy.
I like rape fantasies and I’m a woman so I agree it’s weird. I think it’s just a subconscious submissive thing. I wish I didn’t like it
It's fine to like it though... Everyone has their kinks, and women by nature are submissive so it is natural. No pun intended.
Woman are not submissive by their nature
@ImagineSketchy I'm a psychology student and also a researcher so you keep your expert comments to your self and express your thoughts just like other people don't say something like (it's a psychological thing) while you don't know anything about it
Ironically, I happen to have a minor in psychology... It's funny how people bring up being in psychology and then use it as a "defense" as though no one is going to call them out on their nonsense. Just because you (as in YOU personally) don't have a rape fantasy, doesn't mean other women don't. And despite what you may believe, women, at least those that are more open about their sexuality, have rape fantasies more often. Why? Again, the lack of control and force is something the submissive female mind desires. An old acquaintance of mine, Michael Castleman actually has a really good article on it if you care to read through it. It might shed some light on your disbelief.
@soniaaaaaaa u feeling hella salty he proved you wrong and how are you going to justify yourself for knowing more because you are in a psychology class AS A STUDENT. You are just learning the ropes and there's always more to learn as a professor.
If you guys want to think all women have rape fantasy just to make yourself feel better cus it makes dark side of your minds makes more sense I'm not gonna bother you live with the darkness
I don't recall saying "all women". I do recall saying most though. There are a lot that will fantasize about a being taken advantage of, being forced, etc, at least once after they have discovered their sexuality. It is not unheard of. I have a few studies if you would like to read them, as I mentioned before. You're also deflecting. I personally don't care about people's personal sexual kinks. If people have rape fantasies, foot fetish, are into bdsm, whatever; none of that matters. What I care about is why. I have studied for about 5 years on the whys people do the things they do. And lastly, yes, females are submissive by nature. The opposite of that would be dominant, and we all know that a woman would prefer a man to lead or to take charge, to be the one to instigate or start. It is nature. It is why you or most other women would go by the saying of "men like the chase" or "the man provides". I understand that times are changing to sculpt those phrases differently, but most women are not going to ask out a man, they are going to expect for him to pay for the first date, to "lead" a relationship. Those are dominant things. Most women are bottoms sexually and don't care to dominate their partner sexually, but prefer to be dominated. I'm sorry this was so long, but I'm just proving a point regarding something in my area of study.
thats only because of the lack of communication between them , i guess. If each one tells the other what they want , what they like, dont like etc... life would me much easier and there will be no confusion ever
alright! I want you just for sex
Then ill have to decline but we can be friends
yeah i'm disappointed
At least im still in your life.
i won't be alive for too long now that i know i don't have a chance with you
Now lets not guilt trip. Im not special.
i won't disagree with that
See totally not worth your life.
lol yeah i feel better
Lol "just tell me if the sex is bad. Just be honest dont lie..." @thefemalespecies😂😂😂
Well dont use us or let us fall if thats the plan. Its bs.
Same as boys
Wow, I never thought that girls would have the same question.
Because us boys usually more straight forward, I guess?
Girls think they are straight forward too we have no idea that boy's don't think so