Why do people assume that you are "easy?"
casually speak about sex, if I find someone attractive I tell them. Sometimes I initiate something casual when they're attractive. I've never gone past kissing before and that's just because I'm not ready. Sometimes I think people stay in the hopes I'll do someting with them. When I did stuff with my neighbour I'm not sure if he told people. I've known him for almost 2 decades now I doubt he'd say shit but you never know. He must've thought I was easy because he'd always try to touch/smack/grab my arse or my chest and make comments When I used to sext people at the start it would be fun we'd have awesome conversations mixed in then it would fizzle out into just them wanting the sexting part and if I wasn't in the mood they'd come back when I was. So I used to ghost them. Sometimes when I speak to guys they steer the conversation to sex I'm not sure if it's because "word got around" or they're just like that. Sorry for rambling but that's why people think I'm easy.
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Most of them also assume you are physically attractive.
😮 by the way this is ON GAG NOT OFF LINEOff line hmm dk what people assume tbh. I do t talk so much irl lol
@VIVANT you are delicate as well as strong Beautiful as well as Wise.Your strength comes from your past experiences. You are the most straight forward women I have come across You are Magnificent you are Vivant😉💃
@Aakash_Hangargi lol thank you. Very kind.but As for delicate.. I don’t see myself as delicate. I do not really see why anyone would. I try to be conscientious of people... But this is courtesy not delicacy
Why would you say delicateJust curious... maybe we mean diff things 😊
People generally attribute shy and introverted to be delicate. I don't know why.
@VIVANT some things we donot see by our own but when viewed from third perspective its something else, and beleive I am not the one to flatter anyone I will only praise those whom I truly beleive and what I represent in my characterisation and I am not afraid of conveying it to that person no matter how embaressing my praise would bd to them and will surely let you know one what I mean by it I dont want to hijack his post 😅
@srnsible27 if you by people mean me then know I don't consider your definition of delicate buddy, because you are describing me I sm an introverted person but Vivant is not one she is very precise with what she wants and clearly express it.
I didn't mean you, I meant people in general. This is a common behaviour.
Do you play any games btw?
@sensible27 I understood what you meant@Aakash_HangargiStill you never said why you use the word delicate lol
@sensible27 yes I play chess not good at it but yeah i like it
@VIVANT first we have to finish our unfinished conversation then I will tell you. I have to make something up now need time, 😜 jk😂🤣
@Aakash_Hangargi You two should play you can practice! 😊
@VIVANT may be he asked you iam not sure not everything is about me lol😂
No it was to you hangargi? Any mobile games? Pubg, cod, any battle royale games will do for me...
@Aakash_HangargiNope. He asked YOU 😊😊
Pubg I used to play i am ok not that much good it's been a year though, can I interest you in chess online game?
I mean it wasn't exclusive. If you play you are welcome too, I just didn't assume you are the kind of person that plays lol... @VIVANT i am just bored with a cycle of completely random people...
Maybe. I will have to transfer some things out of my phone before it will allow me to install anything but I am not much better that any average player or person will be.
@sensible27 do you play chess?
I know the rules and I used to play as a kid. That's all.
If you want we can give it a try I am not a pro player either I and Curabyron had a chess battle of 10 mins, but I ate all her army but still couldn't checkmate her due to lack of time it was funny😂😂
I have a chess app. Chess. com what's your username?
@sensible27 I will update you shortly will inbox you
I was brought up not to talk about politics or sex in good company. It's just good manners.Yet, when you do it you are viewed as a prude.
Single mom household ** i dont have kids
Why do people assume that you had an easy life with no hardships?
Because "pretty girls don't have issues"
@SmashingdoozyIn my youth, I thought the same thing. When I was in college, attractive women went to parties and they didn't have to pay a cover charge. Some bars offered pretty women free drinks. Professors offered free tutoring to pretty women. We thought pretty women didn't have issues as men did. They had it easy. As I got older I realized that all that free stuff women got came with a price tag.
I enjoyed reading what you wrote and I gave you a "thumbs up."It's interesting that if a man had those qualities people wouldn't give him any negative assumptions. For example, a man would be patted on the back for being assertive whereas a woman would be viewed as a bitch.Does your family and relatives view you this way too, or are these people outside of your family?
Thank you.. some family members do unfortunately but they're starting to get past it
were they wrong or right?
Wrong, I’m not as stupid as I seem
i believe that... but also violent
She is a fire cracker my friend 🔥👍brutally honest
Why do people assume you sleep around?
@David92506 A combination of things. I’m not ugly, I don't particularly care for relationships, half of my wardrobe reveals my body/shape/skin, I’m generally friendly, I like to party (kind of), and I have a lot of male friends.I don’t really care what most people think of me as long as it’s not interfering with my money. I’m pretty stingy with my body. I know that. It’s my truth and I don’t feel the need to always correct people when they make up dump assumptions.
@Ellie-VMany people believe attractive women have it easy in life. Everyone likes them and everything is given to them. What I've learned on social media is that assumption just isn't true. Just as you wrote, many people have that assumption about you and other attractive women. If I was an attractive woman that would really piss me off.
@David92506 I see it like this; people who want you but can’t have you will project a narrative that supports their wet fantasies because that’s the closest they’re ever going to get. They don’t care that it’s pure fiction. They just get off on the feeling. The people who go out of their way to slut shame me (for no valid reason) are the same ones who would fuck me in an instant if I gave them the green light. It’s hypocritical, disgusting, and disrespectful. And I could let it get to me but I choose to be happy and make money instead. They’re filth and it’s not my mess to clean up.
@Ellie-VI once heard a comedian say this, which sort of pertains to what you are saying:"The difference between a Prostitute and Slut is this. A Prostitute will have sex with anyone who pays her money. A Slut will have sex with anyone, except you."
@David92506 yep, they mad 😂
Your mask🤩.. did you hand make it?
No haha, I stole it off my sister in law at a Halloween party
you question your own motives?
@LEADFOOTboi I don't need to. I know what they are.
oh noooooo it's that they question your motives... motives can be difficult to clearly discern to me... i have no choice but to trust
@LEADFOOTboi Yeah, well... screw them I guess.
i really don't wanna get it wrong... but i usually don't care about someone elses motives unless they mean something to me... maybe you mean SOMETHING to them... i hope it's good