@angecandy Forgive me, I am in that age demographic that does not quite follow the meaning of all but the simplest emojis. However, if I read you right, thank you.
She's just saying your story is shocking and made a considerable impact. It's not the ideal way of communicating for certain.
Those emojis meant "that was an awful thing that happen to you, so rude. But glad that you found someone who loves you and gave you 3 magnific children."
@AlexanderBrunnrgaard Thanks. I did not want to seem unappreciative, but as my long suffering girlfriend will testify under oath, I live by Evelyn Waugh's character Scott King, who said, "I think it would be very wicked indeed to fit a boy for the modern world."Suffice to say, my emoji translating skills are not the best.
@angecandy Thank you so much for your kind comments and good wishes. I am sorry that I don't translate emoji very well, though I sensed that you were communicating good wishes and did not suspect ill intent or meaning.Thanks. It still hurts more than I can say than when I think of my baby that I never got to hold and tell him/her how much I loved him/her. However, I have been blessed. My girlfriend forgave me when I could not forgive myself and she has given me three of the most beautiful little gifts in the universe. My happiness is, in that sense, unbounded. Made just that little bit more special by kindnesses and good wishes from people like you.
Holy shit. This completely broke my heart.
@HerLucidNightt Well, I'll be honest, I was not sure - although I have mentioned what happened in other places on this site - that I wanted to re-tell that story. Partly because I could not be sure that it really answered the question - as I say, I don't know - and partly because it does hurt to tell my story.There are so many good aspects in my life - not least my girlfriend and our three children - I don't like picking at the scab. However, it stays with me and haunts me and I miss that baby more than I can express.So I appreciate your sympathy and I thank you. Beyond that all I can assure you is that while I will never get over the loss of my baby, I have made a good life and have been blessed with the most beautiful girlfriend and gifs that I could ask for.Thank you again.
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Honestly I respectfully disagree with your opinion. Though I will say that I have been through overt racism from white people and it is mostly from white women. White women have actually physically harassed me on multiple different instances and made it clear that it was because I am black. I have also been harassed and mistreated by other black people too. That's why I usually roll my eyes extra hard when I hear white women spew feminist crap about white male patriarchy up-holding white supremacy.
@FGaines18 I don't buy into feminist nonsense either. But I do have a question, what do you disagree with? I stated scenarios that have happened to me. Tnose are not things to agree or disagree on lol they happened.I guess you disagree with my last paragraph?
HAHAHA I am cracking up because I was going to make it clear that I was disagreeing with your last paragraph but, assumed you would know. Yes I disagree with your last paragraph.
@FGaines18 well the statistic about racial violence is true though. A black man is most likely to be killed by another black man and white man more likely to be killed by another white man. However it's also true that black people kill white people more than white people kill black people. And when these murders happen they may or may not be attributed to racism.
Det är helt sant
@angecandy Visst! Det finns invandrare som repekterar lagar och vill ha det bättre och sen finns de som förstör allt. Jag själv har blivit rasist lol.
Men du ha ju rätt i alla fall, det gör mig sjuk att se när de förstör samhället.
Jag är också invandrare
Och på grund av allt dåligt de andra invandrare har gjort, så tror folk att alla invandrare är likadana
That wasn't right. Racism can go both ways. That guy shouldn't have judged you because of your race. He really overreacted.
@Flower7 The odd thing was that he wouldn't accept my apology and he wouldn't go in front of me.
People like that must just enjoy conflict. It could have solved the problem for him to just go ahead of you if it meant that much to him. But I guess he wanted to be a victim.
Just out of curiosity, was it here on G@G that you experienced a lot of online racism? I do know that there's a lot of that happening on this site.
@Flower7 Oh my gosh yes! Though other sites and chat programs as well. From anons of course, but I have had to block a few people that are pretty open in their racist views. But it is everywhere sadly. Anyone that says otherwise is blind to the issue.
You look pretty white to me
@7771999 Well I had to hand in my id which shows your nationality.
And that makes you non white? 👀🤔
@7771999 im not white
Then what on Earth are you? 👀
@7771999 I am actually not sure 😂
I'll say you're white then. Because my eyes don't lie. 😊🙏🏻
I'm really confused on people logic today I don't know if every attractive person seems to have a low iq but it seems that way
Wow, Lithuania. In Eastern Europe they have no clue of what is to live in a multi racial/ethnic and cultural society. Gotta forgive them for their ignorance.
But been mix is not a race, it's been mix, been part of two worlds.
Where i come from its a race is itself.
Where are you from?
We're referred to as "coloreds" mixed people are a race here
It sounds ridiculous.
It is. Very.
Ummm honey. Racism is about RACE. Your skin color.
@carebear33 try to understand that heightism I'd the same just much more common, in my country Denmark colored people are at least treated just as good as white people, and in many cases the get positive treatment, like many of us women. After all, it is a bit boring that one has to choose something other than skill. But NO shir me get help in no way but are treated as hell in top of being seen as useless by most women, it's a mystery to me that they don't get pissed of
Costumes? I'm confused
@Mrsao People's body/skin.
Half Indian I love people of Indian descent they are so sweet and goregous
The only difference is that its very subtle and passive.
Haven't faced myself though. Saw it happening.