How do you view failure?

I get very frustrated by it because all of the time and effort was wasted and punishment is certain to follow it be it direct or indirect. Philosophers like to say failure is the best thing that can happen to you, but when I ask why, they have no answer or say it's success in progress, but it's more like barriers blocking me from success and making me waste tons of time and stress starting all over again, which strongly discourages me and makes me feel worse about my ability, which happens constantly as I'm a routine level failure and can't seem to fix it. How do you view failure?
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