How to feel comfortable with 4C hair?

I'm always hearing terrible comments from my family about 4C hair. I still wear it but it looks terrible most of the time because I don't know how to care for it and I'm insanely depressed so it falls out a lot. I'm trying to fight through my depression. I'm trying. My hair is actually down my back now. But my God... I don't think I'm ever going to heal from this natural hair hatred. If your family always made fun of you for having a ugly nose what would you do? Would you hate your nose forever?

Seriously, it's gotten to the point where I almost want nothing related to my texture on my head.

I've been trying for years to love my fucking hair. It isn't working. honestly, I can say worse shit right now but I'm not.
How to feel comfortable with 4C hair?
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