I see how much you care about me when you dream of going to a place where I’d be arrested, thanks.
Do straight cis people love going to Dubai so much just because it’s illegal to be LGBT?

I see how much you care about me when you dream of going to a place where I’d be arrested, thanks.
- You have a very inflated ego and sense of importance if you believe for one second that people go to Dubai just to get away from LGBTQ individuals. Contrary to what you personally believe, people have lives and desires that doesn't revolve around your personal feelings. I want to go to Dubai at some point because it is a great tourism and vacation spot, not because it doesn't allow LGBTQ individuals. It is a personal travel goal and desire.
Plus, that's their culture for wanting to believe and enforce what they believe. You may not like it, but that doesn't mean you can encroach on it just because it pisses you off or makes you feel bad. Why should they change something just for a small margin of people or break their personal beliefs and values?
Here's an idea. Quit obsessing about how other people and nations view your sexuality and gender. It will do wonders for unnecessary stress and to go with that, unless you are a native of that country, I personally don't think you have a right to say how the hell they should accommodate everyone and bend the knee and forget their personal values and culture for a very small group of the world population.0|00|0Is this still revelant?You realize there are LGBT people in Dubai right? I’m not hating on the people and culture but the government is killing its LGBT citizens and that’s not ok.
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- I do not agree with thebrules there... so for me fornyears have being totally discarted go to dubay. Opression for me is not a cultural quirk. neither a religious aspect to be respected ( nothing against the religion itself, but some practises from some groups);I will feel very uncomfortable in a land without legal, stateand religion totally separated. call me a chobinist, but occidental culture is the actual epitome of mankind in all our history, even with all our failures. You know old mid east were civilization was nurture and till certain early stages during our dark age... they had a booming science, maths, optics etc... till religion took over everything. why we are better right now?, cause we absorbe they knowledge, and with time we separated religion from other aspects of life, we manage to to put the balance towards science, even western Christianity that comes from catholic church have being heavily influenced by philosophy, so we do not only follow a book, without this we will still be medieval. Short answer, no matter the estetics, i don't travel to places that are rule like we did in our medieval time. Is not against religion, but the inability to separate it for other aspects for example legality.0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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- Anonymous9 dI doubt most people consider this before going.. there are many things wrong with Dubai.. lack of women rights, it is more or less build on slavery.. No need to take it personal.
Many people make choices without thinking of all details. I doubt you consider where and how all the products you buy has come to be. The material world is full of immorality, go live in the wild without internet, electricity, manufactured/farm food if you want to avoid making any decision that is immoral to someone.0|00|0Is this still revelant? - Anonymous10 dGoing to Dubai has nothing to do with it being illegal to be lgbt Dubai is beautiful country I’ve never been there but just looking at photos of how beautiful the place is and the amazing buildings they have it actually makes me want to visit there one day just so I can see it all in person0|00|0Is this still revelant?
Yeah it’s beautiful when you’re not the one being oppressed by the country huh? If I didn’t care about LGBT people I might think it’s beautiful too.
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Your question kind of angers me because I had a family member who visited Dubai but it had nothing to do with them wanting to go there because it is illegal to be lbgt they went there for training for the army because the army takes you to different states and countries to train if my uncle who is gay were to read your post he would seriously laugh at you because this is seriously some of the dumbest things anyone can think or even say seriously where do you come up with this nonsense
Well it makes me mad to hear people talking about going to a country I would be arrested and deported because of transphobia. And if you think it shouldn’t make me mad then fuck you. Nobody fucking cares about us or our feelings.
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I have the right to be mad at how horrible people are to people like me. I am entitled to these feelings.
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228- Anonymous9 dBREAKING NEWS ALERT: The rest of the world does not give a shit about you or anyone else other than themselves. I'm 73 years old now. Do you live your life with the goal of making life more comfortable for older people? I have a friend who has stage 3 lung cancer. Do you live your life with the comfort and safety of lung cancer victims on mind? I have a sister who has diabetes. What do you do for diabetics every day? You don't care about other people any more than they care about you. We all care about the close circle of family and friends that we have and that's where it ends. Deal with it!
No one else is going to take care of you or stop their lives because you have some sexual disorder. You need to accept that fact and just start taking care of yourself.0|00|0 - Most people don’t view the world their sexual identity. They travel to places because they are interesting places. They like certain authors because the write good books. They like certain types of music because it’s pleasant to them. They have certain friends because they trust those people. Etc. etc. etc.
what your saying would never even cross most peoples minds. This whole idea of viewing the world and everything in it based on your “identity”, weather it be race, sexual preference, political ideology or whatever... is a new concept that was created through critical theory and intersectionality. It’s a terrible way to view the world in my opinion. All it does is create division among people that actually agree on more than they disagree about.0|10|0 - I have no interest in going to Dubai as I find there morals detestable and I kinda want to be able to drink booze. But more importantly why would you ever think getting away lgtb person's is the reason for cis people are going to Dubai? I mean it's not like the mere presence of them causes discomfort to most people in the western world.0|00|0
- If thats the first thing u think off you have a inflated ego as most if not all people when booking a holiday to dubai dont think about there rules with lgbt rights at all to to think people would only go there because u can't is actully retarded its statements like this why u get so many haters on your questions not because u are trans but because u say some vary stupid stuff1|30|0
Imagine the international outcry if they made anything else people are born as illegal. Everyone would boycott Dubai if they made being Jewish illegal.
No they wouldn't lol China is a prime example they have persecuted Muslims and put them in camps the be better citizens they are oppressing the people off Hong Kong yet i can garuntie when lockdown ends people will still go people can do what they want when it comes to boycotts but do u actully think they would change there policy's when it comes to lgbt when there whole society is based in laws that disallow it its not even that its just the law but in the mindset off most people over there that uts wrong to be lgbt
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OK good for you but we don't get to pick a choose where we are born or come from if thats how u feel thats fine but to get upset that others don't have a issue with the place is plain stupid
You are the same way I'm entitled to mine and when we share our feelings people are entitled to critique what we say the same way we are doing now
But thats with anything sure your upset about people not caring about how lgbt people are treated im suprsied u think people would care humans have a vary out of sight out of mind mind set people all over the world die from hunger starvation homelessness yet we all just live our lives
- Ah, now I remember why I unfollowed you.
Others choice of vacation spots, for whatever their reason, is no concern of yours. That's the end of it. Stop trying to be the center of attention; the majority of people couldn't give a fuck that your trans, and the ones that care wouldn't even know if it wasn't the only damn thing you ever talk about.
You talk about it like every 'cishet' can't wait to get to Dubai; I don't know or care about the people you associate with- but I've never heard anyone talk of Dubai like it's their dream vacation spot.
You know what else is illegal in Dubai? Marijuana, fireworks, public displays of affection, firearms, drinking in public; basically anything fun.
So, yeah, you're not allowed to let others know your penis makes you sad, who cares? Try not going to Dubai, and if you can't, try keeping your mouth shut for 5 minutes.0|20|0You're DISGUSTING and should be ashamed of yourself. If you have a small dick just say so. Damn 34 and yet a teenager has more common sense then you do. Cry about it.
- Dubai is one of the hottest literally and figuratively vacation spots on Earth right now for many reasons. How completely warped is your mind that you think people are deciding to go there specifically because of some ban of LGBT or as an insult to you. Trust me, you're not nearly that important to drive decisions made by others about their vacation plans.0|21|0
I don’t seriously think that they’re going specially for that reason I’m just pointing out how much people don’t care. It hurts.
You really think they need to change their vacation plans because you might not like it or approve of it? It's their vacation, not yours. If you decided to go to a part of the South on vacation that were predominantly racists and white nationalists and they said they found that area offensive, would you cancel your plans just to make them happy? I'm pretty sure the answer is no.
Everybody makes significant life choices. With any life choices come upsides and downsides and ramifications. You simply don't feel you should ever have to deal with yours. That's not how life works.I’m from the South. The South hasn’t had racist laws in 50 years. My wife is black. Your point isn’t the same. Being transgender isn’t a life choice and oppression shouldn’t just be a “deal with it” situation. If someone I know was going to Dubai I would tell them how they oppress LGBT and I won’t be happy for them and I won’t want to talk about it or like their pictures. That should be pretty fucking understandable.
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You have deliberately and intentionally aligned yourself with a president and his core base who spew some of the worst hate towards transgenders possible. Many in the group you have chosen to be a part of don't even see you as human. Frankly, I don't think you have any standing whatsoever to complain about friends who visit Dubai.
- Anonymous10 dThey probably don't know it's illegal. Most Americans don't even know the UAE is an Arab/Muslim country.
THAT being said, I'm not gonna boycott an entire destination because it discriminates against LGBT. I'm not LGBT so it doesn't effect me. I travel to see the sites. I only avoid countries that hate Christians and White people. I don't care about issues that don't effect me.
But Dubai is pretty overrated anyways. There are far cooler cities in the Middle East and even in the UAE. I don't know why people love it so much. They can go to Turkey and also have luxory.0|00|0 - Most of the tourists go to Dubai gets an average of 8 to 10 hours of sunshine a day year round, so you can generally expect blue skies and warm to hot weather that makes water parks a fun option for families whenever you visit and there will be no drunken tourists to spoil your holidays, don't think they'll be bothered about being place where being LGBT, is illegal those nationals who are LGBT tend to keep it on the down low.0|00|0
- Anonymous10 dNooooo, I were on vacation there some years ago because its nice there, not because gay people are not legal there. I don't think about gays or trannies all the time unless they attack something I like (movies, games etc.), I read yuri hentai or that month when gayness is so overpromoted you can't ignore it.
Usually I let them be, and expect them to let me be.0|00|0 - I’ve been there and it sure wasn’t for that reason- it’s because I’m interested in the Region and it’s an interesting place.0|00|0
- No... I think they go just to make themselves look like they live a luxurious lifestyle for their Instagram photos.0|00|0
- Anonymous10 dFucking hell, you and your fucking continuous fucking sob stories are seriously fucking everyone off.
For fucks sake, just fuck off and cry on a different forum.0|20|0is this a tranny we are rseponding to? she doesn't act female and uses radical language that makes me think she's on hormone blockers
- Anonymous9 dDubai is a big business capital, getting worked up over your mental illness isn't going to help your condition or appear rational.0|00|0
- you are a radical and extremist person for thinking in these terms. you shouldn't even use the unscientific term "cis"
the word is "normal"0|20|0I’m not alone. But yes I am angry at you whiny ass cissy ass faggots expecting me to kiss your ass and call you normal. I’m going to respect myself.
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I AM A BEAUTIFUL AND SPECIAL GIRL JESUS MADE ME VERY SPECIAL AND LOVES ME VERY MUCH I WANT THE MEANIES TO GO AWAY PLEASE GO AWAY it hurts how so many people like to make me feel bad about myself 😭
Imagine how it feels to be treated so mean by so many people who always have so much fun hurting you but you just want to be a normal happy person with a family and a job but everybody likes to hurt your feelings it makes me want to kill myself so I can go to heaven and stop being trans already 🥺
60 to 90% of people who claim to be trans grow out of it, you just have to decide in your own mind that you will grow out of it and it will be over.
here are 12 scientific studies that show over 90% of children that say they are trans do indeed grow out of it- it is just a phase
Lebovitz, P. S. (1972). Feminine behavior in boys: Aspects of its outcome. American Journal of Psychiatry, 128, 1283–1289.
Zuger, B. (1978). Effeminate behavior present in boys from childhood: Ten additional years of follow-up. Comprehensive Psychiatry, 19, 363–369.
Money, J., & Russo, A. J. (1979). Homosexual outcome of discordant gender identity/role: Longitudinal follow-up. Journal of Pediatric Psychology, 4, 29–41.
Zuger, B. (1984). Early effeminate behavior in boys: Outcome and significance for homosexuality. Journal of Nervous and Mental Disease, 172, 90–97.
Davenport, C. W. (1986). A follow-up study of 10 feminine boys. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 15, 511–517.
Kosky, R. J. (1987). Gender-disordered children: Does inpatient treatment help? Medical Journal of Australia, 146, 565–569.
Wallien, M. S. C., & Cohen-Kettenis, P. T. (2008). Psychosexual outcome of gender-dysphoric children. Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 47, 1413–1423.
Drummond, K. D., Bradley, S. J., Badali-Peterson, M., & Zucker, K. J. (2008). A follow-up study of girls with gender identity disorder. Developmental Psychology, 44, 34–45.
Singh, D. (2012). A follow-up study of boys with gender identity disorder. Unpublished doctoral dissertation, University of Toronto.
Steensma, T. D., McGuire, J. K., Kreukels, B. P. C., Beekman, A. J., & Cohen-Kettenis, P. T. (2013). Factors associated with desistence and persistence of childhood gender dysphoria: A quantitative follow-up study. Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 52, 582–590.
i'm trying to help you but you have to help yourself and resist fantasyIs this the information you use to convince yourself you grew out of wanting to be a girl as a kid?
spare me your mirror fallacy attack, you're the one with the problem. and you're the one trying to be something you are not.
and you're the one projecting nowI’m the one that is beautiful and feminine and soft and smooth and happy as the beautiful woman I am
- No, actually we all go to Dubai because they have more attractive prostitutes than any place else in the world0|00|0
- I mean, it doesn't bother me. I'm not gay so I don't care about gay people.0|00|0
- Is CIS supposed to mean biologically normal? What do the letters stand for?0|00|0
Cis means you go by your assigned gender at birth and you like the opposite sex.
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- You could be given a gender-neutral passport and if you don't cause trouble I doubt they would give a fuck.0|20|0
- lmao. Maybe they just like Dubai. It's not always about you.0|20|0
- Anonymous10 dDubai is amazing. You won't get arrested there for being transgender. You think no lgbt people visit dubai?0|10|0
A trans YouTuber Gigi Gorgeous tried going to Dubai and they detained her and made her take the next flight out of Dubai.
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diferent lands, diferent rules. I do not agree with them in a broad specter. So personally I dont feel compelled to travel there.
- Really? Shit. I should go there! I can't stand faggotry.0|20|0
I don't know what that means. Gays are usually super weak. Vegan Men in dresses who walk shaking their butts. Seriously they are strong? Id fight one of them if they are so strong im not homophobic. Im not scared.
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@DepressionXglitter oh burn. Iike Im so scared of a girl pretending to be a man. Im actually sorry for your serious mental issues. And i read the bible every day.
- White people don’t love going to places they’ll be targeted. Ie, Mid East. I’d like to, lots of history there.0|00|1
- I'd go for the gold souk and maybe the spice souk0|00|0
- Anonymous10 dWhy do you call them straight cis? It's like calling you queer LGBTQ.0|10|0
I don’t care. I’ll call you cis every day bruh. Fuck outta here. I’m not going to call you normal and your dumb ass knows it. Stop complaining like a whiny bitch about a word.
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You cis faggots expect me to kiss your ass and call you normal. I’m sick of it. Cissy ass whiny ass faggot ass bitch.
Well white straight people did it to anyone who was a poc or apart of the LGBTQ+ community. Did you forget how we were literally attacked for being ourselves. Called faggots everyday. Murdered for doing nothing. Shut up and sit down.
- Anonymous10 dLucy in the sky with diamonds.0|00|0
- Attention retard alert.0|10|0
- Anonymous10 dno ples0|00|0
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