To what extent does the number of likes you get on social media define you?

I quit social media because I thought it was a waste of time, but I remember I would only get 5 likes tops despite having tons of acquintances and posting cool content/photos. I would also define myself as attractive and a world traveler.

Some other girls would literally post anything and get 160+ likes.

I would like to know the psychology behind it since it seems interesting.
To what extent does the number of likes you get on social media define you?
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