I'm asking since people seem very divided on this subject. Some people love it and would get hurt if their partner didn't want to celebrate V-day. Other people don't like it/don't think it's important at all. So what do you think?
Most Helpful Guy
It is not important at all.
I wouldn't care if my girlfriend didn't wanted to celebrate or if i get her something and she don't. But i totally respect my girl's decision and feeling. If it's important to her then it becomes important to me too and if not then my real feelings is that i don't care much about it.
Such days are an excuse to be unified again, to be happy and together. That's positive. But we shouldn't be unified and together only on special occasions. How about try to be happy, respect each other and love each other ultimately and cherish our existence everyday?
Plus, the fact that people make negative milestones and unnecessary tensions out of such days.
-Materialist perspective and getting upset/fighting why the partner not spending enough money.
-High expectations for certain gifts and acts during the event
-Making a challenge about who do it sooner and who do it better
-A burden of doing something new every time or things going to be ruined.
While such events suppose to be just a simple, plain and a beautiful excuse to be happy. Nothing more.0
Most Helpful Girl
Not that important to me. Honestly, you can say not important at all xD coz like for me, if you love someone you would show it always, if you wanna give a gift to someone you can give it any day, etc. No need for it to be when its Valentines day. 🙉 Its cute if your partner did something to surprise you, sent a love letter, gave a rose, or decided to surprise you by taking you out, all those are cute to me since I love nice and thoughtful surprises but I definitely won't be slightly mad (not even bothered) about it1