Well I'm 16 years old high school boy and there is a girl from my class. We were friends before. Before two weeks I told her that I liked her and she said she only sees me as friend. Few days ago she said she meant that she needed time to think and that she wants to try to be together. I told her that let's know each other more first and then we'll see how it goes. So we are not in relationship but we are like dating if you can call it like that "seeing how it goes". The thing is Valentine's day is near and since we were only talking to each other for couple of days I do not know what should I do. The thing is we are not a "thing" yet and we are not in relationship officially so should I bring her something on that day? Should I talk to her about it? Or do what I was thinking bringing a rose with a little card to show that I really like her? This is my first time so I do not know what to do and as I know it's her first time dating someone. I'm really stressed about because I don't want to ruin it with her cuz I really like her. PS: We didn't go out yet just talking inside school and knowing each other better.
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe just get her a cute and generic card and write inside of it something like "Happy Valentines Day" or something kinda funny. I think I got someone a card with a kitten on it and said inside that I kinda was into him. It came accross as cute and kinda funny, and alleviated the problem of bringing absolutely nothing to the table. Id acknowledge her, especially if you guys are getting to know eachothers ways and seeing how things go. She may hold it against you subconsciously if you do nothing. If she acts weird once you do do something, give her the cold shoulder and act like you dont want to go out. Next time she wants to hang out, say you're busy... maybe only answer every other call or 2 of hers.. not much response for her texts generally keep it short for a couple weeks. If she feels rejection, thats the key to getting in her life. Just remind her that she needs to try for your affection. Its a game, I know, but it works well. If nothing else, maybe itll boost your confidence if you really aren't into her.0
Most Helpful Guy
Dude you r not a Superman or a celebrity to make it official.. relax and tell her your feelings.. though at this tender age a girl on ur mind is definitely a distraction to your budding career.. no matter what you say n how u lie to yourself.. deep down inside.. you do know that.
Anyway, if you really wanna make things work, gift her the chocolate and a bunch of red roses. Should be sufficient considering you being a student. No need to try fancy things. Just keep it simple. A good girl falls for your simplicity rather than your pompous lifestyle and materials. Good luck bro!👍0