Nothing too philosophical please.
Most Helpful Girl
I just try to be happy and not let situations out of my control bring me down. I focus on myself and my goals and try to be polite and the confidence comes naturally. I used to be really insecure so I have noticed a huge change when I realised that I can't control everything.
Most Helpful Guy
Focus on what matters to do, what really matters to you. Is it family? Then focus on working hard, turning yourself into someone who provides both mentally and emotionally. Be proud of each achievement and who you are becoming.
Is it a specific skill? Do you love cars, or computers? Become more knowlegible in those areas, and measure success in your exploits.
Find what matters, what you can be passionate about, and go succeed.