He got the day off work on purpose so I was expecting we were going to do something. I was about to book a spa day without him knowing as a surprise but the night before he said he was going out with a mate instead. I feel a bit deflated that he hasn't made any effort, he got flowers delivered to my house but just feels like an empty gesture. He's now surprised that I'm disappointed. I know valentines day is just another day but it would be nice to of had a bit more effort made. Am I right in feeling upset?