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He went through a stage of starting sex and going down on me a lot.

Then now he only starts quickies before work or when he gets in and there isn’t much time. But when there’s time he never tries for sex. I will and he never turns me down.

But he’s stopped going down on me for the past few weeks.

He claims his minds on other things and he’s tired a lot. So only starts quickies and says he wants to go down on me it’s just so happened that way that he hasn’t. He also says he knows he doesn’t need to start sex or try for it because I do.

Is this normal?

I've been with my boyfriend now for several months, we both love eachother immensely and love being with eachother. We are both at uni and he is in a house of 5 other guys, and I basically live with them. I get on with them all really well and appreciate that he wants to see his friends, but I feel that I don't get enough quality time with him.

His bedroom is where the PS4 is, so it acts as a bit of a social hub. Throughout the day he's normally playing fifa with the guys, or watching football. I try to get involved as much as I can, and I do really like the PS4 myself, but as soon as all the guys are together, they go on career mode and I don't get a look in, I generally just watch videos or go on the laptop on his bed until they're done. This is normally the situation all day, he even opens his room up even if I'm still dozing in bed. They'll play on it until they need to do something, or watch a match, then go back on until about 1am.

It seems that the only time I get with him is at night, where we'll watch a film, but by this point we're both really tired. We'll probably have sex, then he'll fall asleep. It's the same if we ever get time during the day too, he wants to try to fit a quickie in.

He does spend quite a lot of money on me, and he tries to keep me happy. Like a week and a half ago (after I got upset because I felt like I never got to spend time with him), he paid for us to go to York and we spent a night in a hotel. On the night we went for dinner and cocktails, he treated me with perfume and makeup, but since then, the only proper time we've had has been lunch in Costa yesterday for an hour, which is something I suggested.

Part of the reason why he can't spend time with me is because one of us may be working, but as soon as that isn't the case, he goes back to playing on fifa throughout the day, or maybe watching a film with me at one point during the week if Im upset about something.

Am I missing something? All I want to do is see him properly