Questions: Dating

How many women would put their man as the biggest thing they value? Over their career and other things. Do you think many or very few?

Like men are judged on are we rich, are we funny/confident, are we tall, are we in shape, are we good looking, are we well known and respected, are we ambitious, are we experienced with women, do we have a big package.

Social media changed the game. But we are judged 100X more harsher than women.

How can any guy be confident? In a world where there’s always more and more. No man can be good enough unless you’re drake.

All those attribute I mentioned I do well for myself and it’s just not enough.

With Instagram now as it is. If you’re a really hot girl you’ve got 5-100k followers, you’re now competing with celebrities, because a famous guy will want to use her for a fun time and now that girl will think that is her new minimum acceptance.

Look at how many women worship male celebrities like drake, Chris brown and put them all on their stories. Women only truly desire the best men on the planet.
The best guy is no longer just tall, handsome and rich.

I think so.

Like I get people shocked all the time that I’m single. It is partly through choice but also a lot of the time I will match with loads of girls and they won’t respond, ghost….. they still looking for more when I already check every box. Like I can’t believe my fortunes in life. Yet still, not enough.

But also I never get to meet new girls in person. I am not complaining at all - I am just highlighting.

It’s easy if you have nil standards as a guy and undersell yourself.

My lady and I broke up a few weeks ago, and this weekend is a formal dinner gathering for neurologists and psychiatrists in my city, sponsored by the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology. I didn’t want to go alone, though I very well could have, so I invited someone who’s taken but she has agreed to come with me.

She won’t be taken long because I can easily pull her away from him. I have much more to her taste than he does. Haha.

So I’m just curious what the ladies on here think.

If you were taken and a young doctor asked you to this kind of formal high-status event, would you go?

Do women want to have been with multiple men. Like in bed and full on dating.