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I don't know why, but I'm just not into being in a relationship. I'm not fond of dating either...

I tried once and told the guy yes, then I broke it off in like 2 or 3 days.

We kept meeting up, but we always did our own thing. He was with his guys, and I was with my girls. We basically ignored each other or acted like we normally do when everyone's together. I'm actually glad.

I don't know why, but I just don't like relationships. I like friends with benefits better. I don't know why, I guess I just don't like the title. I'm a person that doesn't like to be tied down.

If you claim me, try to control me, or own me I run. I mean I can be in a relationship, but you have to let me come to you, and that's not easy. (I here that it's because I'm an aquarius but idk)

I'll hangout with my friends girls & boys everyday, and love to be together, but when it comes to a "Boyfriend/Relationship" I just don't like it. I don't know I guess it has something with not liking to get attached or having someone attached to me.

I don't like relationships because...

- I don't want to call/text you every minute, let alone day

-I don't want to see you everyday

- I don't like to throw the L word around

I like it better when I see someone I'm interested in every once in a while, and that's when the sparks fly! I can really feel the chemistry. I like to flirt, but just not RELATIONSHIPS!

Do you feel the same way? Why? Do you think you know why I feel like that? What's your story, opinion, or answer?

So.. I hung out with this guy last Thursday (a week and a bit ago), and it went really well.. he has 6 exams coming up that are worth 80-90% of his final grades.. and he's working.. and has a bunch of other responsibilities..

I did message him on Sunday last week, knowing he probably wouldn't respond, just saying that I hoped he had a good weekend, and it was nice seeing him the other day.

but I still Haven't heard from him...

Should I be taking it personally.. or is it totally understandable because of exams? Thank you!

MORE information below if you want it..:

We watched a movie, and talked.. he opened up to me about a lot of pretty personal things, I learned so much about him.. we tried having sex.. but I think he got performance anxiety..and we had to stop.. (we'd hung out once before and when I gave him a bj, he came really early.. so I think he was stressing/embarrassed about trying to prove himself..) but it wasn't at all awkward afterwards.. we just lay there, completely naked and just kept talking about things.. I kept saying I shuold leave cause it was getting late and I knew he had to study, but he kept wanting me to stay.. so I would and.. I could tell he genuinely was enjoying me being there.. he asked me to stay the night.. so I did. we didn't do anything sexual, just cuddled, and talked. he ended up skipping his class the next day for me, and I stayed until about 3pm in the afternoon.. it was really great.. he mentioned that he had a hard time "getting attached" to things.. but that was due to bad relationship experience.. but said he thought if the girl was "chill enough, it might be easier to commit", he then continued to tell me more really personal things, and cuddle, etc...

thoughts?

We were friends before, but then a hot kiss happened after a long night out with common friends.

Though our friends always said he seemed to like me a lot (I didn't use to think about him THAT way), he quickly told me he wasn't looking for anything serious.

But after that day we always kept in touch, almost daily, sometimes all day long and 90% of the times because he reaches me out.

After that first kiss (a year ago) we dated a bit (no strings attached, but also no sex), then we kind of naturally stopped seeing each other.

We kept talking though...and dirty talking too.

After he moved in to my street (it was the cheaper option after he was forced to move out of his previous home) I knew things were about to get...messier again.

First we would hang out on my place. He tried to kiss me once but I said no (don't want to mess our friendship, I said and he agreed).

After a few just-friends lunches or visits to a movie theatre the attraction was unbearable and we started fooling around again.

We keep being up-to-date daily with each other lives. He tells me if he's away at his town, daily asks how I'm doing, texts by night

(not only when we could be together, as a booty call).

Also...i still want to take things slow. I'd be the perfect FWB..except he's not getting it ALL as a benefit.

Everything he does would be a typical sign he LIKES me, but he keeps saying this is just for fun (at least he said it right before we got back to be involved).

Why bother waiting for me to be ready when he can have other girls? (not a virgin by the way, and not doing it to make him suffer, just because I want to be a 100% comfortable with this situation).

I do believe in him. Should I just get away now? I don't think I'm in love but I'm so used to him, so-to-speak, and we for sure are attracted to each other,

I know I'll fall for him one of this days...