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Hi Ben. I have been reflecting lately on our recent conversations and realize that I still have feelings for you (even though it's hard for me to put my heart out on the line and tell you). I want you to know that I'm ok with the distance in a relationship because I'm a very independent woman. I would have a really hard time being just friends at this point. Please let me know where you stand. :). If you're going to text me flirty/dirty things, you better follow through with it! Lol... I'd be game... wink, wink.

Little back story... In April 2014 I meet this great guy. We dated until the beginning of October 2014. Because of Ben's job (new pilot for a company that is bouncing him all over the country) it made it difficult to see each other. But we talked, FaceTime, and texted. But I started listening to my friends and became kind of frustrated with the situation. So one day I asked him " I know work is crazy right now. But I just want to make sure your still having fun in this relationship and it's still what you want to be doing?"

His response was... Things here are crazy. I have enjoyed getting to know you but I'd be lying if I said that I'd be able to spend any significant amount of time with you in the near future. I certainly didn't think this year/job was going to be this hectic and time consuming but it is. I don't think it would be healthy for either of us if we pursued this relationship beyond being friends. I realize this isn't news you would want to wake up to but it's an honest self assessment from my perspective. This last week has had me flying throughout the night so I apologize if my grammatical structure is frayed. I apologize if I've disappointed you but I think its best for both of us.
Then on Thanksgiving I texted him. Happy Thanks etc. He responded promptly. Then two weeks went by and I noticed he was matched on my new harmony account. So curious I looked and two days later I received a text from him. Are you stalking me on eharmony

So my bf hangs out too much with his x-gf.
I dont know if i am exaggeting since some people tell me I am but here goes the story.
Four years ago this girl (for privacy pourposes im calling her Marie) and my ctual boyfriend ( lets call him Ben) had an online relationship since she lived in another state they would talk daily and be romantic with e/other. But when she came on the summer for some reason she freaked out and stopped talking to him altogheter. Then Ben trynig to find a reason contacted her sister (lets call her Ann) and he liked her and kept talking to her, thrn she told him that for loyalty to her sister they shouldn't talk. That is how i enter in the story, I was bff with Ann and thus he started talking to me we became pretty good friends and he admitted to still being mad with Marie, but then two years passed and we didn't hear from her, then a friend of her Ashley contacted Ben and told him that things with Marie ended too badly and if he wouldn't mind going out with her and Marie. He was curious about her (since she never explained herself) and from what he told me everything went well and they decided to be friends again, so they start talking nline again, since she has to go back home. And then Ben and I became a couple last spring, everything was going well but the mMarie came on summer and she wanted to hang out with him (just friends) so he, Marie and Ashley went out. Then, she moved premanently to the city and enrolled on Ben's school ( i go to another one). I didn't noticed anything going between them, but they had to participate on a play and ened up being the main cuple and had to be all touchy-feely with each other. Thus Ben claims that it was for the sake of the play. I confronted her and se told me that they were just friends. But thing is I know for a fact (i have friend on that school) that they always together, and when there are projects they always pair up, and he always waits after school until she is picked up. Also...