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Im 21 , he's 26. Over the summer we got to know each other and things were really going well. then things went sour while he went on a trip for 2 weeks. We got into an argument and it escalated quickly, a lot of things were said but I found him being quite vindictive at a certain point. B/c of his work & me being away at college , we went from being 40 minutes away from each other to an hour and 45 minutes away from each other. made things less manageable. Even when he came back from his trip , we didn't see each other for another 2 weeks. So essentially, we didn't meet up until a month after the heated argument. In b/w this , we would text & possibly have phone conversations here & there. When we finally saw each other , i thought we would take the time to talk about what we had argued about.. kinda get it hashed out &start over. But the day that we did , he wanted to go 2 his good friend's birthday party and so we did &completely pushed the talk aside. We planned to hang labor day , he cancelled.& last Saturday.. but his employees ended up screwing something up so he had to go in. All in all , we never really hashed things out..& the only time we did have a bit to talk about itwas when he went to drop me off. When he did text me to hang that evening i was already annoyed so i told him that i would see just like he had put me off , i would see if i could. Which angered him b/c he said he didn't like playing games. the argument led 2 him dismissing me from his life. I didn't hear from him , he would put Snapchat stories of the plush toy i won 4 him once. & 3 days later he contacted me. I didn't have his # at that point & small talk wasn't going anywhere esp after he asked me something & i told him not 2 take it 2 heart but tht it was somethin i talked about w certain ppl. i then asked him to not get offended but y he contacted me if he had kicked me out. He stopped texting and deleted me fron snapchat. We both messed up so idk..

We met through our best friend at a party and we talked all night and left everyone else and after the party my friends told me that he was gonna kiss me and we talked for two weeks after the party. It wasn't til we stopped talking did I find out that he already had a girlfriend
(He's broken up with his gf now)6months later he has a birthday party and as all my friends were invited, I was invited too. I drank a little too much and became very drunk and passed out (sick as well) he looked after me brought me water put me too bed and checked up on me every so often. However my friend told me that he told them he thought he had a chance but didn't want to take advantage in my "condition"
they then asked me if I liked him and unaware that he was in the room I said no harshly because I knew my friends would take the piss had I said otherwise.
Then two weeks after that my friends threw me a surprise birthday and he was invited. I made sure not too drink too much this time and we talked a lot. There was this drinking game where everyone was in a circle and passing drink by kissing and everyone insisted that we both join in. We did and after we started kissing a lot he did tell me though that he'd just came out of a long relationship (8months) and wasn't looking for a relationship but really liked me. I agreed and we started kissing again.
But the thing is, it didn't feel like just a party thing because it was very intimate he would massage my back and hold my hand and kiss my neck etc
we spent the whole party like that And he went home about 2am with the rest of the boys.
we talked for about 3 day's after that.
the mutual friend that introduced us keeps saying that I should be careful and that he's a bellend and that he said it was a one off thing but they said that before.
Im very stubborn. I won't tell anyone how I really feel and I don't know if he's the same but I just want someone's opinion because I don't know if I'm just thinking it because I like him

I have had a crush on a guy for 4 years and it seemed like he did to , he used to flirt with me anyway I discovered that he had a gf and talked to her and now after 2 years (NO contact at all) he removed the pic. he has with his gf (but they are still together) he came to a friend's birthday party who happens to be my neighbor and who I happen to spend 99% of my time with (they aren't friends and they never talk) and asked him where I was and told him to tell me that he said hey , the friend told him she won't replay yet he insisted
I know his mind games
and I know that wasn't just because he wanted to be friendly or friends
and I know you'd tell me stay away but I just wanna understand
what does he want? what do you think I should
does he just want me to think about him again? I don't understand

PS:he KNOWS we can't be friends