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So about me... I'm biologically male, but identify as agender, which basically means no gender. So my goal, is to look as androgynous or as gender-neutral as possible. If I were born a girl, I'd be masculine for a girl. But since I was born a guy, I'm feminine for a guy.

Physically... I shave off ALL of my body hair. Just all of it. It's not even that tedious to me, honestly. I just put on some music, and do it with patience, and takes me around 25-30 minutes a day.

I have a little bit of facial hair, but I shave it off too. My hair is very long for a guy. It goes to about the middle of my back. And I dye it platinum blonde, but my natural color is medium brown.

I like to keep my hands and skin in general super soft, and apply a lot of lotion and oil and massage daily.

I don't really wear makeup because I like my natural look, but I do use a little to hide blemishes or acne or whatever.

Emotionally... I talk about emotions with people, and I'm not afraid to say I cry at least once a week. I also love cute things, and emotional, sad, sappy movies and TV shows.

I'm pretty happy with who I am, and I have a girlfriend who loves me just as I am. She actually used to like pretty masculine guys, but she fell in love with me, and grew to love my physique.

Oh... and I'm bisexual too, if it's relevant at all. I like men and women exactly 50/50. But if I HAD to pick, I'd still choose women.

However... my dad is completely against me being so feminine, and so are a lot of my older family members.

Not trying to toot my own horn here. Like I am the type who is definitely not conventionally attractive. I am not masculine, don't even have all my hair, can't grow facial hair, and skinny. i am not tall either 5'8. It doesn't happen a lot, but every once in a while I'll get asked out my a woman who is at best an acquaintance. It's rare but I've been flat out asked out by female strangers. I have a bad level of honesty as well to the point I have even self sabotaged potential relationships by criticizing and lets just say not marketing myself well. Yet some of these women still want to pursuit me even after all of that. My only good flaw is that I have hard work ethic. That's it and most of these women don't know that. So I just don't know what they see in me. Some are below attractive and some are so incredibly attractive and due to my stupid low confidence and honest nature I tell them they can do better than me. Because I know they can. It takes along time for me to open up and show my uncommon funny side that you people get to see but only cause we are on the internet.

So I'm a 20 year old guy, and I've seen a lot of videos and infographics that talk about how you should choose your hairstyle and facial hair by your face shape. Using the technique, I'm very confused. I feel like i have a triangle and rectangle face at the same time, which honestly kinda makes choosing this stuff hard. I do like my hairstyle, though, as it is a mix of a quiff and a combover, which I feel suits my face very well. However, when it comes to my facial hair, I'm really confused. Mostly up until January of this year, I had been rocking minimal stubble, and while a lot of infographics say triangle faces should have minimal stubble at most, I felt that my face looked really, really large and I never really liked it. However, after growing it out to about 8-9mm, I really started to love it. My parents don't think so though, as they're always saying i need to cut it off. However, I have never liked being clean shaven, and I don't feel like myself without at least a heavy stubble (5mm) at minimum. I really like the 8mm I have on right now, as I feel it gives me sort of a more mature, edgy look. I've heard that girls my age won't even really give me a chance if I have a beard, but I don't want to have to shave just to possibly get girls.

I'm just curious as to what your opinion is, and I'd love to hear from both guys and girls. Tell me how old you are, and why you chose the option you did.