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This is complicated so I will make it short. 10 years ago he liked me, we dated two weeks, I broke up w/ him b/c I got the feeling he didn't really like me (we didn't seem any different than when we were friends). He said he was fine w/ the breakup when he wasn't. I quickly moved onto someone else.

For years he liked me and I didn't know it. He liked me for... 5-6 years? Finally, I broke up w/ the one guy I had been dating for years... I started liking the first guy again.

One night he tried to kiss me and I wasn't sure if he was just looking for action or if he really liked me. Apparently THEN he really did like me still. He called me a tease and left though and didn't even fight for it... so I took that as he wasn't truly interested. (winter)

For two weeks (again, in the summer) we acted like a couple talking, staying up all night, giving massages, wrestling... w/e else. We never kissed b/c I chickened out and he wouldn't go for it either.

A year later... I come to find out from him that he felt our friendship had faded, he didn't like me all along and that everything was just revenge for not liking him when he liked me. He said when it was apparent that I liked him he was just using me b/c he was lonely and that he felt horrible about it.

Long story short.. from the not talking, to talking again he said he really truly wants to be friends...

I NEVER hear from him. He never reaches out. We don't seem to have any friendship whatsoever. He only talks to me when he's in town now... now that he's moved away. However... he is now moving back to the area. I'm nervous. For all the years he's been gone he's never put any effort into the friendship... so what do I do now that he's just going to show up again? He calls when he's here and tells me how much I mean to him/how our friendship is so important blahdy blah. Should I ignore his calls or should I attempt friendship again?

We agreed on "friends" 3 years ago and I've done all the communicating.

My guy friend and I have gotten very close lately (hanging out almost everyday, but no sexual intercourse or anything intimate of that nature). He says I'm only a friend to him yet he's very over protective and pushes aways guys that show interest in me. He was saying that he's lonely and that he needs to find a gf soon, yet he says he would never date me... also he wanted to know how many guys I've been with...
He was always giving me tight hugs and ass grabs lol...
He says he would never date me yet he's very protective of me? Also I took offence the other day and told him about ending the friendship and he started crying. He hasn't contacted me or seem me in 4 days now, which isn't like him at all - he always wants to hang around me. He was then saying to my mom that he doesn't like when I get mad at him.

What's running through his mind? Does he have feelings for me? Or is he just plain confused with his life? (He is dealing with personal problems as well - still heart broken over an ex, etc...)