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OK so if you could only choose one behavior which one would you rather have and why?

pushing away/being difficult: Someone who when you compliment them, they will say something like "you have to say that because you're trying to win me over" or when you say "let's hang out" they say "I can't, can we reschedule, maybe some other time". they are always telling you to go be with someone else. You know they are a nice person and treat you right and really love you but they have low self esteem so they are always being difficult and pushing you away. They never really want to spend time with you, but they aren't spending time with anyone else either. They are just loners and would like to go on their own to sit and watch a lake with their ipod. They would probably not care if you ever call, text, write. They don't barely call, text or write to you either.

or clingy/needy: Someone who chases after you sort of like Scarlette in "gone with the wind" where they will "stalk" you and try to find you wherever you are going and show up and confess their love for you and lather you with affection and flattery. someone who is head over heels trying to win you over, and will puppy guard you and follow you around and always tell you to be with them no one else. They will fill your house/place with all their stuff, they will tell all your friends and family that you belong to them only. they will probably ask you to spend every single second of your life with them. They're so extreme that some times, you feel a bit overwhelmed.