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We are coworkers and at first use to text all the time. Hhe doesn't show his emotions at all he pretends he's super hard and doesn't need anyone and doesn't like anyone and doesn't need any girl. he has huge issues opening up to people and says he doesn't trust anyone and that when he trust people bad things happen. But u can tell he puts up a front. So recently we hung out and I gave him oral sex, he said I was the best oral sex he's ever received. And then after that he has been distant. Not distant but doesn't text first, he will answer me but just doesn't text first. I'd say he tried to hit and quit but he acts super shy and awkward with me and looks at me in a very lustful way and shy way and you can tell he is thinking I look sexy and likes me. You can TELL he likes me just by the way he acts when we are together. He invited me to hang out on his birthday because I asked. I then brought him a very expensive birthday gift and he looked extremely happy and like he liked me so much ( but quickly hid it) and just said you know your really great. Then I go home try and text him and he's rude again just not answering. It's like the more deep we get into eachother the more he just acts like he doesn't wanna talk. We agreed he'd have to tell me about his life if I got him a present ( I was gonna get him one anyway) he said okay but looked terrified, now he's ignoring me.

i broke up with my ex 2 weeks ago because he cheated on me. he never came back and asked me to forgive him, he just said okay and we broke up. (he cheated twice btw) he said it's for my good etc etc. even though he cheated, he was a really great boyfriend. he did so much just to make me happy. he put in a lot of effort for my last birthday and got me $300 worth of things and hand made gifts. i could see my birthday really meant a lot to him. he did love me a lot, but he just couldnt treat me right. his birthday is next week, and I've decided to not wish him. maybe im childish and immature because even tho he did so much for me, i just can't let go of the fact that he cheated on me twice. and the thought that he has other girls to wish him keeps coming to me. im sure me wishing him happy birthday will mean quite a lot to him. but i want to protect myself from being hurt. am i heartless or mean?