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my ex boyfriend of 13 months was serious with me and talking about plans for future with me and I was helping him with car Payments every month and he was always there for me to doctors appointments and helped me lose weight and was always there for me and attentive to my needs and very affectionate. We were also living together day in day out and did everything together. He would even cry if I ever wanted to go home and didn’t wanna let me go.
His mom even was teaching me about the Jewish holidays too and invited me over for the holidays as well and bought me a star bracelet.
Back in June we had some arguments and he was unhappy so behind my back he went out on a date with a girl who’s the total opposite of me- gothic punk type and I’m the sweet girly sensitive type. June 28 was when we broke up and then he made the girl opposite of me his girlfriend...
He has always been very private so I’m surprised he wrote a relationship status with this girl on Facebook. Also she’s asking him if he wants to marry her and he was saying he picked out her wedding dress... it’s only been 5 weeks! And he likes to move slow...

he's also telling me he misses me tons and still loves me and gets offended when I disappear/ don’t call him and asks me when I’m gonna come to see him...

is he in a rebound? Or does it sound like he wants to marry this woman to have done a relationship status on fb? (Something he doesn’t usually do)

So I have been single for my entire life. Since I have been in my late teens, I have been concerned about my single status. Maybe I have a reason to be or maybe I have too high of an opinion of myself. But I don’t get how a relationship has not presented itself for 25 years. And the few times guys have shown “interest” (can’t tell if it’s platonic or romantic), it isn’t by a guy I’d usually pursue. And I know women get approached by guys they actually fancy.

I was bitching with my mother the other day at breakfast. And I feel she may have said this out of being annoyed. But she said that “you are alone because you choose to be”. And that kind of hit me hard. I don’t think it’s true. And one day I was saying that when my brothers (now teen boys) get a girlfriend, they will be on their own and I will still be hanging out with my remaining family. She said “if you stay single for that long, that’s your choice”.

I think she lacks empathy and doesn’t understand because she met my dad at 18 and they were married for 10 years. I feel like I am one of those women that don’t get noticed by the opposite sex regardless of the effort I put into my appearance.

Does anyone see where I’m coming from?