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I love my boyfriend so much however his negatives outweighs the positive

Positive
- He loves to kiss and hugs me tight every night
- He is a good looking man
- He can cook well
- He is good in sex
- He picks me up from work (only sometimes) when we stayed together - He says he is serious about me and wants to marry me
- people says we are both good looking and a good match
Negative
- I caught him in the house sleeping with just some random Stanger girl who he just met in online dating site
- I caught him having so many condoms and lubricants. I wonder where he use it when he never use them to them. We always have unprotected sex. He said it's just a gift from his friend.
- Some chatted me about him. It looks like she is spying and only to find out that sometimes my boyfriend sleeps at her condo in another city. She said she is just trying to help him because he is homeless and they are only friends. I don't know if she is telling the truth? - I caught him chatting many girls. I wonder who are they. He said just investors. He wants to build business but don't have money - he ask me to loan 1m but I don't want and he insult me saying useless
- he ask money and food from me if I can't give he gets mad at me and insult a lot
- he gets mad when I hold his hand in public
- He rejected me many times in sex

We have been a year relationship with my boyfriend.
But he has to go to another city to earn money.

Last July, my boyfriend visited me and I saw that there was a girl who keeps calling him and he won't take the call. When he left the phone in the car, he named this girl "Dianne GF" in another city. This girl texted him, babe how are you doing? I got to my boyfriend and confronted him about it. He said it's just a typo error of girlfriend and we are just friends.

On August - October, my boyfriend visits me one to two weeks per month. We still have communication and we see each other.

On November, I called my boyfriend at 3 AM, I wonder why he can't take my calls.
I keep calling him until he answers.
On the next day, there was a girl who chatted me on facebook named Dianne. I was shock because it seems that this girl is spying on me. She saw my name on his phone while playing a game on his phone at 3 Am and ask if am his girlfriend. She said she wants to know the truth. my boyfriend said to her that we already break up. I ask this girl if they have a relationship with my boyfriend and if they had sex. She said no we are just friends and we have never had sex and we are many in the house with my other friends. I only told him that you can stay in our house but you have to respect them. She said she just wants to know the truth about us. . I told her I am his girlfriend. This girl said I don't want to break any relationship. I asked her, why she call my boyfriend babe? She said, No it's just misunderstood. I call everyone "babe" whether a boy or a girl. He just stays at my house because he said he needs to earn money to help his family. I should not tell him that she chatted with me.
I confronted my boyfriend that "Dianne" chatted me, and he replied "Good luck to you both."
And when I get back to facebook, this girl suddenly blocked me.

I am confused