Search Results: too close or too distant

Having feelings for a friend, any advice please?

I have a male friend who lives 8-9 hours away from me, ish. We met online by accident, in a comment section somewhere neither of us knowing the others age or anything. When we traded FB it turns out we're exactly the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I be distant towards my boyfriend since he’s being distant towards me?

So my boyfriend barely puts effort into conversations with me. He doesn’t do anything sexual with me and rejects me when I ask. When we text sometimes he gives me one word answers. This is frustrating me. When we have a...

Lexih91919

Xper 5 Age: 26

So my boyfriend barely puts effort into conversations with me. He doesn’t do anything sexual with me and rejects me when I ask. When we text sometimes he gives me one word answers.

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Why is this guy acting like this?

I've been close friends with him for 2 years now we talk and chill everyday. Lately tho I feel like he’s pulling away and acting more distant and yeah we do still talk everyday but the convos are super short and he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is my best guy friend pulling away?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Maybe I’m overthinking this but do things still seem alright?

Over the summer I started talking to this girl and we went on a few dates. The last date happened the night before I went off to college. That date consisted of getting a hotel room, swimming, talking, and having sex. The...

Upstatemind

Xper 6 Age: 28

Guy friend is sending mixed signals and acting distant?

I've had this guy best friend for over a year now, and we've done everything together including traveling to other cities alone, spending hours alone with each other. I'm the closest friend he has and he treats me in a...

petrock111

Xper 4 Age: 26

Family & Friends

Is my friend being a fake friend and did he get bored of me if so what should I do?

I’m 21 female but I feel like he’s getting bored of me or something. I don’t know it just feels different now. I’ve know him for a little over a year now and we talk everyday and chill almost everyday but whenever we do...

Xleah17x

Xper 7 Age: 28

Entertainment & Arts

Super smash bros ultimate vs mortal combat 11?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Ok personally mortal combat closes off newcomers... it never let me get into it cause everyone kept beating the shit out of me and i would of had to asctually learn the techniques of

Ok personally mortal combat closes off newcomers... it never let me get into it cause everyone kept beating the shit out of me and i would of had to asctually learn the techniques of the game to enjoy it and i just dont like that... i prefer to play a game and be able to grow without it being stupidly hard and frustrsting... thats why i love super smash bros more plus itnwas designed so an elite player still has a chance of being beat by a new comer (very small chances tho) unlike mortal combat where months of practice reallyyyyy show... I don't know its just an opinion... i find super smash bros more fun and addictive and personally the characters are cooler and nostalgic to me since i played nintendo games since i was tiny.
I also love in ultimate that there are soooo many characters now all with tones of different moves and final smashes which are so visually satisfying... take bowsers for example where he appears in the background as some massive massiveeeee bowser god using his paw to flatten anyone.

Smashes percentage system works way better than a health bar too becuase it takes away that closurphobic feeling and adds more of a spacious strategic feeling where i have enough room to plan moves and defend myeelf from a K. O... it just feels like the fight actually takes thought and satisfying strategy rather than seconds of thought and really paranoying fighting where if i dont do the exact thing at the exact time then that health bar depelates in seconds. The new story in smash ultimate is just so fresh and new and just something that adds 20 hours to the game plus. Unlike my own experience with mortal combat where i learnt some stuff in the dojo, tried to do a tower or whatever and died over and over and necer found that dedication to win as it just felt so distant.

Obvs mortal combat is a great amazing game but it feels like its restricting players a little and not so open. Personally i prefer smash as its for casual and elite but mortal combat takes actually time

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I made out with my crush and he saw me naked too. I don’t know what’s going on in his head. Does he look at me just like a friend?

I really like this friend of mine and we got really close over the last one year. The last two times I got drunk it was with him. And both the times, he initiated the kiss. The first time, he went home after just kissing....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Yet another terribly confused female with the behaviors of a guy friend. Send help please?

So one of my best guy friends has always been amazing. He’s super sweet to me and has always in the past showed he cared about me a lot. He’s always concerned when I’m down, buys me things, listens to me and protects me....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Should I just not talk to him?

I recently moved to study my Msc and start my career. Met a professional who wants to collaborate with me and has been incredibly supportive. He was telling me a lot of personal things to the point, they kind of sound a...

mangosmall

Xper 4 Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

Our break up makes no sense and I can’t move on from it?

My ex and I broke up after 3 years together. He broke up with me out of nowhere and gave a million irrelevant reasons but when we met again he had calmed down and said he just needed to figure himself out. He showed...

Andiepandie1990

Xper 5 Age: 31

Why is he so cold and critical now?

This guy I work with used to be so nice and silly with me. He was very responsive, very sweet and silly too. He was forever teasing me. Then someone complained about all the visits and distractions. Now, he doesn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Do you get awkward and distant if you fell too fast for a girl?

This coworker and I were super close friends. People even assumed we were together. This was going on after a huge breakup/divorce. He was always around, always texting. Then out of no where, he is distant and awkward...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A friend realised that I have developed romantic feels for her. She is now acting awkward around me. She told her friend that she feels uncomfortable?

I have known her for 9 months now. We work together and even sit right next to each other. We have a good chemistry and became really close. I am not too sure if I just misread the signs or not but she use to ask a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are we more than friends for him?

So I have a guy friend (a little shy in the topic of love) and want to understand what he thinks of me. Everyone in our friend group thinks that we’re hiding that we’re lovers😂 We were classmates for 2 years. At first...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he still likes me?

I used to be in a relationship with someone but later broke up with him after a while. We were so happy with each other—always teasing and flirting. We only lasted for months but I knew I loved him. The reason I broke...

Anonymous

(18-24)