Search Results: was i too pushy

Am I wrong? Facebook dating?

I met a guy 2 weeks ago on Facebook dating. We’ve been texting & things were going well until he wanted to FaceTime the second day. I’m not comfortable with that yet. He feels like I am not interested & am playing games...

Clayaya

Xper 6 Age: 28

Help! What are some ways I can ask my boyfriend if he doesn't want to be with me?

Lately I've been feeling like my boyfriend doesn't want to be with me. How can I ask without coming off too pushy and upsetting him?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I reach out first?

I recently connected with a old friend and we talked for the past two days. Some things got a little sexual and at the time I might now have reacted how he wanted. The convo died and i left him on read. The next morning i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Would you find this flattering or weird if a woman offered to take you out/pay?

Once I was talking to a guy on Instagram and things were going good, and silly me brought up the fact that we should hang out sometimes and drinks/dinner on me lol, out of no where he had blocked me. I didn’t know what I...

Michieex

Xper 6 Age: 36

Education & Career

Am I being too pushy with my boyfriend?

I am 27 and my boyfriend is 29. We started dating in 2017 and officially got together in 2019. I completed college in 2019 and I’ve been working since then. I make about double what he does. I have saved up enough money...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Any tips on how to get a second date with a guy?

I have had some amazing first dates with guys where we both just clicked instantly... but always find it hard getting a second date... They always say "yeah we totally should" and then never organises anything so I try...

shalala33

Xper 5 Age: 32

Should I leave him alone?

So I started seeing this guy a couple weeks ago. We get along super well, we've hooked up, he's stayed the night, met my pets etc. So the past 5 ish days he had been more distant and told me that he's having to get off...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did I make something out of nothing?

He hasn’t really ever yelled at me or gotten snippy im just expecting him to cause he gets snippy on OCCASION if the boys aren’t listening I’m chronically worried that I’m being too enthusiastic and pushy when I tell...

hsshannah96

Yoda Age: 29

Is this creepy behaviour?

I met a guy off tinder and I started talking to him on another platform, by text. Before we arranged a date, I found him really intense, he was being forward complimenting my appearance, and I had reason to believe that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are these dating red flags?

So I met a guy off tinder and I started talking to him on another platform, by text. Before we arranged a date, I found him really intense, he was being forward complimenting my appearance, and I had reason to believe...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are these red flags?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are these red flags? should I trust my gut feeling and not go out on a date with him?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this too forward and a red flag?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would he consider this to be too pushy?

So I’ve had this guy friend for about 2 years now. We would talk off and on and would only text. We haven’t seen each other in person in over a year because we live far away from each other. We have been talking for like...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it healthy to be too pushy towards a partner?

Even though my boyfriend wants to see me grow, sometimes I feel as if he's placing ultimatums. He's not happy about these things about me: - Still living with my parents at age 33 - Presenting average/mediocre...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I don't know what we are?

We knew each other for a longer time but only lately we went out together and spend a week of vacation together. We are now far from each other but I don't know what to expect really... We had good time together, we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

OK, I got over myself and messaged him, but should I just move on now?

Few days ago, i asked how i should approach this guy i had been messaging for a while now, long story short we used to message everyday, now the conversations dropped pretty much altogether once we sent eachother some...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I overthinking the fact that my boyfriend isn't following our "plan"?

On the 2nd my boyfriend and I got into a fight that resulted in him staying at his sisters for the night. This fight arose due to his road rage, that sparked up while the kids were in the car. This is rare (he usually...

Anonymous

(30-35)