is this a red flag? What should I do?
Is this too forward and a red flag?
is this a red flag? What should I do?
This is why women annoy me. They dont have the strength to say no. Then they blame the guy or play games and lead the guy on. Just tell him the truth. Say he came on too strong and you aren't interested. You aren't forced into anything. Let me repeat. You aren't forced into anything. You are just immature and not saying no. Pretty soon you guys are going to have sex and you will allege rape because you will say "he forced me to say yes to him..."
Listen to your gut. Your intuition may not let you know what's someone's motives are, or tell you what they are thinking, but it will guide you and let you know when something isn't right. I never ignore my gut. Your gut can sense when something or someone is off.
Too many people have been fooled, taken advatage of and even harmed, because they felt too guilty to say "no". Put your own well-being first. Not his feelings.
If your gut is roaring loudly and you ignore it, you'll live to regret the decision. Because you'll discover you were wrong to ignore your gut feeling.
A man was attracted to you on Tinder? Red flag!
He looks older than his age? Big red flag!!
He messaged you asking if anything is wrong after you ghosted him, and so you set up a date with him? Huge red flag!!!
You gave him your Instagram and he posted an emoji response on a post? GiGaNtIc ReD fLaG!!!
I mean if you ain't interested that's fine, but i don't know why you're trying to portray him as some huge creep
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I don't think you should go out with this guy. Your intuition is going off right now, you're second guessing yourself and based on your own life experiences, how often do you ignore red flags in a situation and it ends up being the best decision ever? You're not setup to enjoy the date.
You have to start the date open-minded, ya know? I'd cancel this and move on. Be safe.
Here's the bottom line. If you have a bad feeling, honor it and don't go any further with this guy. Pushy can equal desperation, so yeah, that can be a red flag.
He may have just been asking so he can avoid the same problem with future girls that can be really helpful.
Yes, trust your feelings and don't go out with him. If he asks why just tell him you don't feel like you click together.
If you feel it's a red flag, then it is for YOU.
It seems to be super suspicious.
Huge red flag!!
This is a NO NO
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