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I gave this guy I'm talking to $200 for shoes cause it's his b day we obviously both like eachother and have kissed and have done oral sex on eachother. He before said he doesn't trust anyone and has a hard time expressing himself and says he doesn't talk about things openly and he says he keeps it all in. We get to know eachother a little bit and then I said since I gave him those shoes he has to tell me about himself and he looked scared but said he'd do it. Now he has the shoes ( I was gonna get him a present anyways but I was being nice for his bday) and now he ignores me everytime I bring up the fact I want him to spill the beans about himself and what happened to him in his life for him to be that way and he avoids my question like the plague. I then asked him are you gonna tell me or not... he then says " I am just not right now" and I said that doesn't make sense not right now it could be forever then. He then stops texting me. He looks at me like he likes me a lot and I can tell in his eyes I made him really happy and he wants to tell me everything because he keeps talking to me even when he said he wasn't gonna tell me ( pre birthday present) everytime it's brought up he looks terrified. Does he want to tell me? He said when you trust people bad things happen.

We are coworkers and at first use to text all the time. Hhe doesn't show his emotions at all he pretends he's super hard and doesn't need anyone and doesn't like anyone and doesn't need any girl. he has huge issues opening up to people and says he doesn't trust anyone and that when he trust people bad things happen. But u can tell he puts up a front. So recently we hung out and I gave him oral sex, he said I was the best oral sex he's ever received. And then after that he has been distant. Not distant but doesn't text first, he will answer me but just doesn't text first. I'd say he tried to hit and quit but he acts super shy and awkward with me and looks at me in a very lustful way and shy way and you can tell he is thinking I look sexy and likes me. You can TELL he likes me just by the way he acts when we are together. He invited me to hang out on his birthday because I asked. I then brought him a very expensive birthday gift and he looked extremely happy and like he liked me so much ( but quickly hid it) and just said you know your really great. Then I go home try and text him and he's rude again just not answering. It's like the more deep we get into eachother the more he just acts like he doesn't wanna talk. We agreed he'd have to tell me about his life if I got him a present ( I was gonna get him one anyway) he said okay but looked terrified, now he's ignoring me.

so I'm in college and I've kinda had a friends with benefits for 10 months. It doesn't go past oral. But when we first started talking I told him I was a virgin and he was okay with it. We didn't talk for a little bit and he asked me if I still was a virgin and I said I was ans he was like "cool". I haven't had sex with him yet but why does he want my virginity? Is it going to be a one time thing and cut me off after sex. Or are we going to keep our friends with benefits going or could it go towards dating? Because he knows I like him. But I don't know where it's going to go after. Please comment and poll thanks :)

lets say no sex, no oral, very minimal sexual activity etc. and they weren't comfortable doing more until you got tested and they got tested etc and you were both sure you were clean.

would you stay around and respect this persons wishes or not continue to see them?