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1. I have seen guys ask why their girl gets mad if they check out other chicks and see the same guys say how they hate it if their girl says a guy looks hot.

2. I have heard men laugh at girls for asking if they look fat while they constantly obsess about their penis size.

3. I even dated a gut who was very thin who was so sure I wanted a beefcake (which I didn't) that we had an argument almost everyday about it ( I hate overly muscular builders they look disgusting to me and yet he just wouldn't let it go.)

Believe it or not all of us, not just women, have things we worry over or obsess about. Thing is, men will tell women to make a guy feel good about his penis size, or the fact he likes porn, while telling girls to get over their own insecurities or inadequacies because they feel it means the woman has "issues" and it is "unattractive."

Or could it be that these very guys, who wish to have all of their concerns addressed just do not want to deal with a woman and her own just as valid concerns...

In the end, we all have demons and baggage to deal with that deserve respect and care, none of us, myself included, are exempt.

Guys--women do not corner the market on insecurity or jealousy issues.

Instead of acting all superior maybe just maybe we will try to understand these issues because WE ALL suffer from them and are imperfect beings.

I am constantly striving to tell women in my articles to understand their partners inherent maleness, to give them space, to let them watch porn, to give the the same understanding for masculine rituals as males may give us for feminine ones.

Women who have taken my advice have been happier and so have their mates.

But can a man adopt this ability to empathize and give a woman an inch of breathing room for her human frailties?

Yes, I am bit peeved at this trend to mock women for their issues when men suffer from them too--people in glass houses...

Is this possible that we can step back and analyze this to come to a greater accord, because if we can't, male and female communication may be doomed...?