Search Results: commitment long distance

You've found your ideal lover, who always there for you, who really2 love you , understand you and matched with every criteria that you're looking for for a soulmate (because you knew yourself better) but he/she is far away from you, need to wait a little longer for a stable life together as she/he's struggling with her/his career =(

on the other hand, there is someone who is nice and close with you, you're like best partner in crime literally, you both share the same interest and really good to talk about everything together, you're like a twin as you both share much similar things in common, but...he/she has commitment issues, you kinda like him/her but, she/he never seems to say anything to make your relationship to another step. he/she is already have a stable life

WHICH ONE DO YOU CHOOSE?

I've been dating my bf for over a year now and things have been going slow, mainly cause its his choice. Im not looking for a bf but when you fall for someone really strong, you want to be with them and only with them. Its hard to keep it casual with someone you are in love with. He's also told me that he is crazy about me but he can't fully commit to me cause of other priorities. So I told him okay thats fine but we need to establish some boundaries in order to avoid drama such as we can't talk or be with anyone else, we keep each other in the loop of each other's lives, and other things. So thats how we have been for this whole time but I'm starting to think is he using me? We already act like a couple but he doesn't want to say he's in a committed relationship yet cause that would mean he's acting like a full-time bf. I don't mind if he's not all over me 24/7 especially we're long distance. But he still refuses to embrace the fact we're a real couple.

I've heard stories where she does wait for him and it does work out cause he was all she wanted but the timing was wrong so she simply waited. But there's also stories where he might be just using/playing w the girl and she's wasting her time cause if he's not ready now, he never will be.

So what do I do? Its been over a year. I'm not interested in anyone else. We're fine, no huge problems except little disagreements here and there. The only huge problem is our status.