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Which matters more to you --> That he looks better day to day in clothes or that he looks better naked?

Personally I've got muscle mass but no fine definition, but am not fat, meaning I look killer in clothes but soso/ average naked

Also don't use the "if he looks good with clothes off he'll look good with clothes on" argument, the two things can so often be very different

First let me tell you what I define as chubby.
Above 120 lbs or 55kg IF she's below 6 ft or 180 cm.
I'm 183 cm / 6 ft tall and I weigh 60 kg / 132 lbs.
And I wouldn't want a girl who is above my height anyway so a girl of that height is unimportant.
In the school I go to being below or around 55kg is pretty normal so no problem there (no being that weight or less doesn't mean you're anorexic!) and most girls here have long hair so np there either. I simply cannot be attracted to ANY girl with short hair (above chin length)

I have also NEVER been attracted to girls who weight more than me or 55kgish and my question is, Am I alone in this? Am I the only one who thinks that hot girls are the petite ones and who is really put off by even a little fat?
Oh and being chubby does NOT mean curvy. Curves have nothing to do with weight (unless extreme cases) it's how everything is divided so don't tell me that skinny girls can't have curves.

I think it's unnecessary to go tell chubby or fat people that they are, because they are very well aware and shouldn't need to be reminded of the obvious. So I'm not the kind of person to hate on them or anything. It's their choice/fault to be in that state (I'm excluding people that have diseases/conditions that make them fat)
In short I don't mock them but I do believe that it's good that the beauty ideal is to be skinny not anorexic but skinny. Since being fat IS unhealthy and just being plain skinny Isn't (depending on your definition of skinny) I think this should push people to try to be healthy and not be fat, and I don't think that fat or chubby people should think that they are beautiful but I respect them if they are okay with their current state. The same way as guys are supposed to be buff and fit, since that is also healthy. If anything we should encourage people to be healthy and in the process become
"good-looking"
I don't mean to offend. I'm just wondering if anyone has the extreme views on beauty as i do

So I'm going into college next year as a freshman but I have a question about my body. I'm 6'4, 195lbs, and was athletic for most of my childhood (baseball, football, and wrestling) but have recently stopped because of bad shoulder injuries and being forced to do those sports didn't help either. Right after my most recent sport, wrestling, I was at 180 lbs and 9% body fat and was pretty toned and started to develop more definition in my abs but now I am 195 lbs and about 15% body fat because I stopped doing sports and working out mostly because I was forced into doing both for several years. Since then I developed more fat on my stomach and chest which is the only place where it goes :P Its noticeable but I am nothing close to being fat but I still get self conscious about it. How much do you care about the amount of fat there?