Search Results: earning trust

Guys, how far would you go to earn a girls trust?

Jjpayne

Editor Age: 42

Girl's Behavior

Is there any way to earn someones trust back after you have ghosted them?

In my eyes, the relationship between me and my friend was never serious enough to warrent the explaination that I felt was too personal for him to understand. In truth, I ran away from everything when I feared failing-...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What’s happening?

Okay I’m on, so basically out of the blue my ex boyfriend added me on Snapchat and then we started talking again and he gave a full apology, gave a valid reason for leaving, we decided to work on things like our...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Can’t let go of my relationship?

I’m struggling so much. I have days we’re I do better but I can’t seem to move on from my past relationship. I feel like I got played so bad. Basically, I tried to break things off back in the summer with this guy he went...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can I mend my boyfriend's broken heart that I caused?

My boyfriend of 5 years became my ex boyfriend about a month ago, actually. Two years ago someone I used to really like passed away and it brought back a lot of memories. I was shocked and very saddened by his death, he...

saravrodriguez

Xper 4 Age: 28

Are my feelings valid?

I broke up with my partner today after we have had a rough few months. The issues were mainly to do with trust and dishonesty and I tried my best to forgive and move on from things despite them brewing insecurity inside...

easterngold

Xper 4 Age: 28

My ex thinks I cheated but I didn’t?

Basically I lost all my exes trust in July and September he told me he was gonna go on a date then I asked to meet for closure and he said he didn’t join the date and he did. Then he went on live webcam sites and paid...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex and I lost all our trust but u have such feelings for him?

Please help. Basically me and this guy have been on and off for 2 years. Everything was perfect at the beginning. Like I knew this guy was the ‘one’ But I got sick of the long distance and he didn’t spend much time with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I earn his trust back?

My boyfriend and I've been together for a while now and I caught him sneaking to my phone and reading my conversations with my friends. There was absolutely no reason for him to have doubts about my loyalty. At the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I trust men, when I feel they show little trust for me?

I had a poor example in my father, so it's made me very wary of the type of men out there. In doing so I can be really tough and firm, on how they treat me, but once they prove to be trustworthy I loosen up a bit. Only to...

Lilyanony

Xper 7 Age: 34

I dont understand why some guys try so hard to earn my trust, act nice and all until I consider them my friend and all of a sudden they ask for nudes?

Its so freaking frustrating. It has happened to me 4 times already and I'm genuinely confused. Like we would just talk normally for MONTHS and then one day they would totally change their attitude towards me and demand...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think being to friendly to guys is a bad thing?

I was always told that in a order for a relationship to thrive you have to be friends first. So I would temporarily "friendzone" every guy in order to take time to fully get to know him. I had this idea that friends were...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When getting to know someone you’re interested in, what do you find yourself holding back on?

It usually takes a long time to earn my trust so one won’t learn too many personal or deep things about me until then.

Mickey9999

Explorer Age: 55

Is it wrong to ask someone to blindly trust you in the beginning of a relationship?

Throughout my relationships, guys have always asked me to trust them fully, with blind eyes. I have a problem with this because I have been taught to never give your full trust away, they must earn it over time. This...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Do you think you can earn trust back?

if so, how? if not, why?

anaverageavocado

Xper 4 Age: 26

How can I earn his trust back?

I was dating this guy, and I like him a lot. I messed up. He said he thinks I was telling him the truth about what happened. He said that we can get back together after I earn back his trust and he feels safe with me and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What I wish I had known before I fell in love! What to know and expect?

Guys know you are a good girlfriend and a good person so they keep you around even though having a good girlfriend is not their top priority. Good people are hard to come by so they keep you in the background of the life...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl has feelings for me but feels like she can't trust me?

Been seeing this girl for a month. Everything was great the first couple weeks, really into each other in the honeymoon phase. Then she started birth control and started to get emotional, felt like we were rushing things....

Mark223

Xper 4 Age: 33