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Hello everyone! Im currently dating two guys, Neil and Zach, and I dunno which one would be better for me.
Neil is a very handsome man, and he's also fun to be around.
But if I start a relationship, it is gonna be long distance.. And it will take more than 8 hours to see him every time. I also have a very full program so I won't be able to see him often. He acts immature at times. He tries to make me feel stupid sometimes. Also once, he fully explained to me how some random girls had started a conversation with him at a bar, and asked him out. He even said he accepted them on social media and they texted. When i got mad he said he'd never cheat on someone and that flirting is normal. I've heard he once had gotten into a fight with another guy and punched him for a friend of mine, because they both liked her. Anyway, he mentions that friend a lot:/.. He can't find a good job easily as his uni is not that good
Now Zach attends a very good university. He also lives just one hour away from me. He's never been rude to me till now, he's a gentleman. He's more mature than Neil tbh. I think he'd treat me better and that we would have a more serious thing. But he's definitely not as good looking as Neil. He's average looking. I'm not attracted to him as much as I'm attracted to neil. I dont know him as well as I know Neil. So I dont know his bad characteristics. I dunno if Zach wants a relationship. Neil wants a relationship but Zach didn't tell me if he wants one. He just told me that he's never had a serious relationship for the 3 years that he's moved to the same place as me to attend university. I dunno if I want to be in a serious relationship. I think it might tire me. If I dated Neil things would be easier because it seems thay we're both kinda fooling around a little. But Zach seems more serious as a guy. If we seriously dated my friends from uni would know.. So the whole uni would.. So which one guys?

He always wanted something from me, but never was ready for any serious relationship. I on my side didn't want any fooling around, so it always ended badly and we never had sex.

He always has kept contacting me even when we haven't even seen each other for a year. Now it has been over a year since we met the last time. Then he was trying to convince me he wanted me to move in with him. I didn't believe him and told him to never come back to tell me those lies just to get me in bed. (because he wanted to sleep next to me, I didn't let him)

So months passed and he kept messaging me every now and then. Usually on Snapchat. Then he got a girlfriend and started to send me pictures of her. They were clearly taken in secrecy from her girlfriend, always a little blurry with a weird angle or something in front of the camera. I didn't usually answer him, but I congratulated him on his relationship. He said thanks.

He still keeps messaging me, what should I do? Is he possibly still trying something? I have tried to not answer, still he keeps doing it, so sometimes I answer him nowadays... But it gets confusing sometimes.