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He has been strongly telling me to take the picture off and said that it's terrible and rude of me to put it up without his permisson. He says that it makes him anxious that strangers can see his face but i don't think that's the reason. It doesn't show his face THAT clearly and I didn't write a caption, plus he looks good in the pic.

I believe that he doesn't want other girls to see him in a pic with me even though we're dating, he says we're not officially a couple yet and that he doesn't want to rush. We are a couple except for the title, we go on dates, hold hands and kiss in public, are intimate, he helps me financially and spends a lot of time with me. He keeps telling me to wait and that he will officially make me his girlfriend but it's just too soon. We've been dating for over a month and we did get very close right away but it was mutual and he didn't pressure for sex or anything. He has been asking me out on dates several times a week.

The thing is, he uses Facebook a lot and has clear pictures of himself (and a few close up ones) on his 100% public account. Even if you don't add him you can view his pics. He knows my account but I haven't added him yet because I rarely use it. He uses Facebook a lot and has hundreds of friends on there he hasn't met. He once told me that he adds and accepts adds from strangers. That totally contradicts his reason for being upset.

Why is it bothering him so much that I put up a picture of us?

He is 29.

Basically we split up. A year ago. Six months on he'd told me he kept our Facebook messages (even although we weren't together) because sometimes he liked to read over the good parts of our relationship. I wanted him to delete them back then because there wee loads of toxic messages in there too.

Its been a whole year now? And a whole year where he's been mostly angry towards me and hurtful. We're not even friends on Facebook, and the final straw for me was him getting a love bite from a stranger after a whole year of us being broken up. And me finding out by seeing the mark on his neck.

I mean, that's it for me. There's no going back now even if I want to. At the same time, I'd feel better knowing he deleted our past history on Facebook since, it's history after all. It's no longer relevant.

Is it unreasonable of me to ask that he does this? I want to text him and see what he says. Perhaps he's deleted them by now, but I wanna make sure. Our whole dating history is held within those messages.