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This guy of my city went abroad to study and is now working in Auckland proposed to me saying, he doesn't wanna play games anymore and wanna marry me in future and he don't wanna wait, after we hit really well over fb chat and have mutual friends in common. He was like he was a womanizer before but now he wants to be serious. His parents are in the same city as mine, they stay near me. He made a con-call with this mum and one of the friend, saying that meet you future daughter in law and sis. His mum was like if you have any issue with him, talk to me and don't worry. He made our relationship public on fb and snapchat and he requested me to do it too and I did. He asked me that I won't mind that he is richer than me to which I said not a problem. He asked me about the wedding if I want a traditional one or like what? We video call each other every day at least thrice in the day, since we came across. He asked me if as soon as covid ends, I can come for a 2 day trip with him, when he comes to home city as our first official date to which I said yes. ( We have never slept with each other before and our love is like pure and we don't talk about sex as I said him in beginning that I hate to sext) All this happened in the span of a week. It's Long distance relationship since April 3. You think he is genuine? Any views to why yes or why no?

This guy of my city went abroad to study and is now working in Auckland proposed to me saying, he doesn't wanna play games anymore and wanna marry me in future and he don't wanna wait, after we hit really well over fb chat and have mutual friends in common. He was like he was a womanizer before but now he wants to be serious. His parents are in the same city as mine, they stay near me. He made a con-call with this mum and one of the friend, saying that meet you future daughter in law and sis. His mum was like if you have any issue with him, talk to me and don't worry. He made our relationship public on fb and snapchat and he requested me to do it too and I did. He asked me that I won't mind that he is richer than me to which I said not a problem. He asked me about the wedding if I want a traditional one or like what? We video call each other every day at least thrice in the day, since we came across. He asked me if as soon as covid ends, I can come for a 2 day trip with him, when he comes to home city as our first official date to which I said yes. ( We have never slept with each other before and our love is like pure- we don't talk about sex as I said him in beginning that I hate to sext) All this happened in the span of a week. It's Long distance relationship since April 3. You think he is genuine? Any views to why yes or why no?

I had a thing with a guy on our schools hockey team last August-November. It ended poorly as he was manipulative and controlling. He also made me feel worthless and sexually harassed me. After we ended, his teammate and best friend tried talking to me. I felt wrong about it as I had really liked his friend and wasn't trying to gain a reputation, as I wanted a relationship not a hookup. I soon realized he was trying to sleep with as many girls as possible. I called him a horn dog to a few of my friends but some how word got back to him and he blocked me on everything.

Soon after this, the first guy who I liked tried hitting me up again. I said for him to please leave me alone and then I blocked him on everything as he was playing with my emotions. Now i've been in a happy relationship for a year but im just annoyed that they still react to me.

To this day, more than a year and a half later, his whole team still stares and whispers as I walk by. I'm not the only girl who they've done this too, yet why do they react like this towards me still.
Even my friends have been noticing how much they still care and pay attention to me. It makes me feel really insecure and I start shaking anytime I see the two guys out in public.

Is it because I got the last word and he wasn't able to get me back under his spell and he's butt hurt?