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For a long time I was hung up on one particular ex. I thought she was the one who got away and it was completely my fault the relationship ended. But only a few months ago I found out she had cheated on me right before she broke up with me.

At the time i thought she just came to end of the rope with her patience w/ me. Although I saw the end coming the way she acted afterwards (we had to stay in contact for a few reasons) was next level nasty. I was hung up for a very long time on some of nasty things she said.

But as it turns out she was a cheating whore and needed to do mental gymnastics to self justify her bullshit.

Truth is if she just would of confessed to me then I would of moved on much faster. I would of been pissed but it would of helped see her in a different light.

Ironically I purposely acted semi douchey (didn’t cheat though) towards of the end of the relationship because I too didn’t want a relationship. However she was deeply in love and I knew cutting it off when she saw me as some sort of God send ideal would devastate her. I couldn’t get myself to do that.

I learned a hard lesson not to trust anyone after that. But seriously it’s probably better to tell someone the ugly truth. She was too much of a cowardly selfish piece of shit to do that.

GIRL A.
You pick her name: (Adriana) (Alexandra) (Amanda) (Anna) (Anastacia)

- She is absolutely a dream come true.
- Great personality
- Intelligent interesting meaningful conversations
- Funny with an upbeat sense of humor
- Very intelligent
- Loving and caring
- An excellent listener
- Ambitious
- Engaging with you and willing to try your hobbies
- About 80% of what you'd ideally physically want in a partner (has all of the major physical traits, but missing a few minor ones; such as a preferred height, age, ethnicity, or boob size)

THE CATCH: She lives really far away from you (somewhere possibly in Alabama or Atlanta), several hours away, and you can only see her for 16 hours a month; either 8 hours every two weeks, or 16 hours once a month. She CANNOT move to where you are, and you cannot move to where she is. The rest of your interactions will be as a long-distance relationship only.

GIRL B.
You pick her name: (Barbara) (Becca) (Bella) (Bianca) (Brenda)

- She is a "BITCH!" with a capital B through H, plus exclamation mark. (Aka, a "Karen")
- Not a good person whatsoever
- Doesn't care about anyone else but herself
- Lazy and entitled
- Has radical and extreme political and religious views that don't align with yours
- Polyamorous, promiscuous, and queer ("pansexual")
- Doesn't treat you with respect
- Has no plans for the future
- Extremely rude and blunt
- Often times ignores you

THE CATCH:
She is 95-99% of everything you'd ideally physically want in a partner. She looks like your ideal woman. And she lives within walking distance of you; less than a mile away. She is willing to have sex with you whenever you want, is fantastic in bed, willing to let you do anything (legal) to her, and willing to try any moves you want. However, she's only using you (and other similar men or women) as a f*ck buddy and nothing more. After sex is over, you do not talk to her and she doesn't consider you a "friend."

Pick which girl you'd want. You can only have ONE!

What I mean is let say you had found this very nice guy or very nice girl, they are literally everything you have wanted in your ideal woman or ideal man. They gotten your ideal physical look down, they had gotten all of your requirements in which activities you were looking for in a man or woman. Not only that they also happened to be one of the kindest person you had met.
The person who you are dating with want to be able to officially spend the rest of their lives with you, by proposing you you with a very beautiful ring.

Everything has been going great because you managed to find the guy/girl you had always been dreaming of but it could even be better. It turns out you have been selected to protake in the job you had been begging to do. Everything you have been financially and studying for had now officially come to your doorstep, you will have the once and a chance to finally accomplish the career you have been literally preparing for. You have everything you have ever wanted your dream job and your dream partner but here is the problem you can't have both. Remember you fiance has gave you their heart and proposed to you, while your manager or investors have giving you their money and acknowledgement on your financial future. So you come to a big decision, which one seems more important to you, do you prefer spending the rest of your life with your future wife/husband or you really want to hopefully make big money and accept the job you been literally fighting to get? I know this is an extremely shallow answer but I rather take the money over the girl, to me sometimes relationship can either comes and goes but as somebody who was homeless one, I definitely wouldn't want to risk that again, I definitely take the job offer. But how about you ladies and gentlemen, which one do you want love or money?