Search Results: learn to talk to guys with confidence

How can I avoid self pity with confidence?

This is one of the biggest insecurities that I have .. and been struggling since forever to go over this but I can't .. anyway maybe someone here can help me in some way :) Due to certain reasons in addition to me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Any advice on this situation?

Okay so there is this girl that I am supposed to be hanging out with tomorrow. I went out with her a few times before this, but for some reason it didn't work out then. She just stopped talking to me for a while until...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Help me talk to Women!

HEY so this is kind of an awkward topic for me but I really need help with it so here it goes. I'm 6'4, built pretty well, and I guess I'm an attractive guy. The thing is, I don't look in the mirror and see that - I've...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Self image issue ever since I met this guy.

Two years ago, I met a guy who was always staring at me. We didn't talk that much but he did tell me I was beautiful twice and he wouldn't stop staring at me any chance he got. You might wonder why I have self image...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

What does she have that I don't?

a frenemy of mine is able to get pretty much anyone to like her. girls all love her and want to be her friend and guys have huge crushes on her. now before you think I'm jealous just hear me out. i used to be really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I be seen in a positive light when approaching girls?

I have no issues with approaching a girl. I have the confidence or whatever to approach a girl and start a conversation. What I do have a hard time with is finding out when it is vs when it isn't appropriate to approach,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Confidence is built by always stepping outside the comfort zone? Agree or disagree?

I would just like to share this opinion because a lot of guys and girls here seem to be lacking in this department. People think confidence is something you have from birth. That all the confident people you see are...

NothingGoldCanStay

Xper 3 Age: 36

How does a woman appear more approachable to guys?

As I got older I learned to accept myself and so my self confidence but now guys don't hit on me so fast as before when I had low self esteem and was more shy..I think I always looked arrogant but now its not a shield to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls- Feeling his bicep?

I upset a love interest of mine a few weeks ago with some drunken behavior at a party. When she was really mad at me, I drunk texted her that she was important to me and that I needed to talk to her to explain myself....

snafflox

Xper 5 Age: 34

Is it possible she wants to be with me, but doesn't quite know how to handle the situation of having a boyfriend?

I can't seem to make the right choices with girls ever. I try and try and every time I get knocked down and I need help I learn what I may or may not have done wrong. I've been through the "confidence" bullsh*t and I have...

WAFjordan

Xper 5 Age: 32

Been super depressed and don't know how to get undepressed, advice?

I have been super depressed lately more so than I have been over the years although its always been bad. Depressed Because family doesn't like me, only have one friend, never had a girlfriend in my life, get shot down...

kriskiss

Explorer Age: 39

Society & Politics

College Survival Guide to Studying

We all know the old saying (or was it just a bumper sticker?): Welcome to college, pick two: Sleep Social Life Good Grades Well, as it turns out you can have all three! You just have to know what...

zombiefood

Xper 5 Age: 35

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How to Be the Girl Nearly Every Guy Wants

One of the biggest questions you see on this site is: “ What do guys look for in girls ?” I’ve always had an easy time attracting and keeping guys, so I’ve decided to use my personal experience to try to help girls with...

ShootingStar5

Xper 5 Age: 38

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How do I give more confidence to a man that is hopelessly shy and has no confidence.

I am falling in love with a guy who has little to no confidence especially around women. At times he can be really sweet, caring and funny. Other times he has my head reeling. It seems like he tries to distance himself...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do women go for guys with confidence?

If the guy dresses nicely, is successful, athletic, tall, roughly handsome and really self confident in his body language and the way he talks and acts. He doesn't ever try to impress, compete for, approach or learn more...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm in like with a loner. Confidence is key?

And not the kind of loner that might first come to mind. He has friends and talks to people, but they're never a priority in his life. The guy I've been talking to is the kind of guy who does his own thing ("I do me"),...

Anonymous

(30-35)