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Met my friend online back in 2014, we video chat and kik every day. In 2015 I had a boyfriend and he started reciting poetry to me and including me in it. And in that same day he just blurted out something like “can’t you see I care about you” I honestly did not know he did until that day. He called me a bitch weeks later because I told him about a GOT characters rumored death and he stopped talking to me for 6/9 month’s. I know he said that for some other reason, he just used that as an excuse. Then he popped up out of nowhere saying he was sorry for what he said. we went back to being friends. We were still supposed to hang. He always asks me for selfies or like who I find attractive and we talk about politics to horror movies to food to Disney etc for hours sometimes the whole day! he hates when I fall a sleep, he plays the guitar and sings and he always asks me how I like it? he purposely has conversations in Swedish because I told him I liked it but he says he doesn’t really use it. I told him back in the summer I was going to drink my troubles away and he told me not to, to promise him I’d do something else instead. And to stop butchering myself with the way I talk about myself and I said ok I’ll give it a try but he didn’t reply after that. So I called and texted no answer on both accounts. I got worried he has told me in the past about his family loss and metal health issues. I panicked I was like if u want me to leave u alone for good just say that because I saw him read my texts but no reply. He finally replied and he got mad (first time) saying OMG !! my phone isn’t attached to me like a vital organ and etc etc. so I was like fuck you you’re being mean for no reason blah blah. He read it and no reply and then he logged out. So I texted him saying I’m sorry. he told me his government name and where he works exactly, but never his address but I’m going to his house. So me and my friends are going over there in March2020 if he doesn’t contact me by then.

I just realized he has a mob mentality and that's creeping me out to honest. However, his last statement is making me reconsider the relationship. He believes a child murderer deserves death penalty.

The topic about young murderers under age 13 came out. Meanwhile I think a child that young needs to be placed in a mental health institution for a very long time, he stated that if it was up to him, he would have hanged that child to death with his hands. His excuse was an ''Who cares if it's a child, I would be doing the world a favor by getting rid of a psychopath, they are evil beings in the body of a child''.

He said Mary Bell, James Bulger killers and other young killers in the past needed to be hanged long ago and really meant that statement. Needless to say, I'm disturbed at this moment. Wouldn't that be worst for you to do as an adult? To me, that's still killing an 10-11 year-old kid. I wouldn't have the guts nor heart to do that.

So my friend and I were planning all week to go clubbing today. She turned 21 two weeks ago. I invited my aunt along and my cousin. There’s a pre season football game so I told my friend it was a bad idea. My aunt suggested going to this farm show today but my friend isn’t into that kind of stuff. I told her maybe. I also have a boyfriend of two months that I see about once a week and I text and call him everyday, we get along really well. My friend kept spamming me with messages asking what are we doing today (for the past two days) and I didn’t know what to tell her because I didn’t know. My friend suggested going to this bar tonight and I said I would like to go but didn’t know for sure. She called me last night and gave me an attitude and my boyfriend called in about 30 seconds into the phone call so I told her I had to go. She texted me 4 times today asking what are we doing today. I was at work until 3 so I wasn’t able to respond and now I am at my moms house and I don’t know what I plan on doing later. Still no response from my aunt about the bar. I log into Instagram and she wrote this indirect nasty long paragraph towards me. My parents are super strict about what I do plus I have two younger siblings I might have to watch and she knows this. I haven’t even asked them yet. Her parents don’t care what she does but mine do. I hang out with this girl like 2-3 times a week. If I’m allowed to go, should I? Knowing her she’s gonna yell at me and be all bitchy and she’s also mad that I show up late all the time (as well as everybody else). Am I in the wrong? Or is she? I don’t know what to do? She doesn’t really have other friends either...