Search Results: emotionally distant

Is this controlling and abusive behaviour?

I decided to end my relationship with my boyfriend because he was emotionally and physically abusive and used controlling behaviours. I wanted to avoid repercussions so I sent him a letter through his door with his keys...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

When or should I end my long term relationship now my partner's mother has recently died?

I have been in a relationship for 18 years and have been unhappy for the last 2 of them. Basically I'm no longer sexually attracted to my boyfriend and haven't been for some time. I've tried to see past it as I've known...

girlygo

Xper 5 Age: 51

Is this controlling and abusive behaviour?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I can't trust my fiance?

My gut is just telling me something is off, yet my family is telling me that I'm very wrong. My fiance is a great liar, and it sometimes rubs me the wrong way. She hasn't been caught in many lies towards me, but she can...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What to do about a distant boyfriend?

On NYE we had a situation where I was pressuring him to spend it with me and we didn’t end up seeing eachother. Next day we were texting for a while, then we stopped texting. So little by little I have noticed he is...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Boyfriend is pulling back is this normal?

Me and my boyfriend spent 2.5 days together. We got close. After that, he started to become distant... I spoke to him about it and he said he didn’t want to become emotionally dependent on the relationship and he doesn’t...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Boyfriend is being distant, what should I do?

Now my boyfriend is purposely being distant with me. I just spoke to him on the phone and he said he doesn’t want me to be emotionally dependent on him so he is kind of taking a breather. And I wanted to talk to him in...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I want her back without losing my dignity in the porcess?

Long story short we met on campus, she showed a lot of interest from a far, i messaged her, we talked on and off for months then ended up dating for 3 months, at first she was way into me than i into her, then i started...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to get emotionally distant boyfriend to open up?

We have been together one month. I know about his relationship history and I know he went through a lot so I try to be understanding and realize he just needs time. We will see eachother and connect good emotionally,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How to get closer to my partner and open up again?

I'm not here to complain, just want some advices. My boyfriend and I are going through hard times because he left 4 months ago for his work, and will be away for another 3 months. When he comes to chat with me we have an...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Would you date someone who is emotionally distant and occasionally has suicidal thoughts?

If she isn't psycho or too attached. Just needs someone to comfort her or lay with her while listening to sad tunes, or she might need to be alone or be given space, but is straight up on what she wants

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Which guy would you prefer? Why?

1# Bad boy, stylish, not too smart, dates many women, extrovert, normal job but good amount of money. He's outgoing, you know he wants you. He treats you alright and shows his feelings. He's a switcher (dominant and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

A week after getting sexual she broke up with me, Any girl can relate?

I started talking to her a year ago, according to her she's been crushing on me for over a year and a half, after a weird phase of hot and cold i told her to get her act together or she can forget about me, and from there...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Cold, emotionally unavaiable and distant, qualities that always made girls interest in me why?

I would say that some experiences in my past made me the guy i am today, very unemotional, somehwat careless and rarely show emoitions or love/affection for people, i joke around, laugh and have fun but when it comes to...

3rdSrike

Xper 6 Age: 32

Flirting

Playing VS Being Hard-To-Get

Men hate it when women play hard-to-get...but they also dislike women with standards, who are picky, or simply don't like them. Playing any sort of game is childish, immature, and likely to end in drama and hurt feelings...

Idonthaveausername

Influencer Age: 31

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Dating

What to do when you are hurt emotionally?

Dear all, There was a girl in my class that was somehow attracted to me in the beginning but I couldn't ask her out due to personal issues. Now, I've somehow managed to solve the personal issues I was going through...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does she still have feelings for me, and what does her behaviour means?

Met on campus, after some push and pull for few months we ended up dating for about 4 months... all was great, kissing, making out, cuddling, some sexual things happened, late night talks where she tells me how she wishes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I'm unhappy in my relationship. Is there really someone for everyone out there?

I feel so sad and upset. I've been in a long distance relationship and I loved my boyfriend so much that I went through him cheating on me and verbally, emotionally and mentally abusing me for so many years. I look at...

Anonymous

(30-35)