Search Results: love after lust

I've never done that, I just don't understand slimes. If you are with one person, but lust after another, why are you still with the first? Do him/her a favor and leave him/her. It's better than getting cheated on! And if you loved that person then there wouldn't have been a desire to commit adultery and to then carry it out.

OK so I matched on tinder with him THREE times. I deleted it twice though but not before we added each other on IG.

We chatted on and off and after a few months of very fleeting conversation we decided to hook up. He wasn't looking for anything serious, neither was I. We exchanged pics before and we were both interested in meeting.

After hooking up he kind got flaky and ghosted me despite everything appearing cool. I thought we'd hook up again and he gave me vibes he'd be open to some no strings attached fun.

But then he started to get REALLY slow with his replies after being quite prompt with his texts.

I got fed up of the lack of clear communication so asked should I bother texting in future after he rejected a hook up a few days after our last one. He replied "yeah, it's up to you". Like, I'd love a straight answer.

Anyway, I moved on from him and downloaded tinder for the 3rd time after deciding not to bother with this guy and low n behold, who do I see? Him. I swipe for him and the next day we're matched. Neither of us have texted but he looks at my IG stories and he's swiped for me on tinder.

What's his deal? I just wanted it to be simple and fun but he has me going crazy with the ghosting then matching on tinder. Like, there's no relationship here I know, it's just lust but why is it so confusing?