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Nelson is a 81 year old black man. He is what most would consider feminine man but is straight. As a child he used to hold hands with other boys, kissed a guy on the forehead and giggled. Throughout his life Nelson did what made him happy, what he wanted, and what made him feel amazing. Nelson made his own goals. He never went to church, knows little to nothing about the bible, he never thinks about God, and doesn't even know what he looks like. But he was a very happy, hard working person. He was a medical scientist, and found the cures of 15 different diseases and made new jobs in the medical field. He was able to save millions of lives, he made a large impact on the medical field. But when he was a kid he'd steal a lot, had s*x with a family member, stole a dog, had oral s*c with a guy just to see what it felt like. and cut himself until he could see blood. Nelson dated a Asian woman when he was 50 and had a child with her. One morning Nelson had a heart attack and died while in the car with his 31 year old daughter.

Is he going to hell?

I met a guy on Tinder, he is very smart, he is well-off, has published books and is super interesting... he is 37 and I am 26. I recently got out of a relationship (about 6 months ago) and decided to start dating again. I have always dated guys my age, so this is a big change. We went on a date to this expensive restaurant and he did not let me get the check... two days after that he invited me to his house to watch movies (I know! but we didn't have sex) we just kissed and things got intense, but no sex (oral or whatsoever).

There was chemistry, obviously.. but then he took me home and that was really refreshing.. a guy my age would have had sex right away... since I wasn't really saying no, but he said it was better to wait.. and then the next day, he invited me again to come over. I asked him if he just wanted to hook up or actually see me... he said he really enjoyed hanging out with me... so anyway I went over and i slept over, we DID NOT have sex or even hook up, we just slept together cuddling...


I don't know, I just don't want to do it right away, but I want to keep seeing him! I think there is potential here, but he is much older. He could be using me and just waiting for me to "give in" and fuck him. I've seen him three times now, and before I slept over at his house he suggested to go out during the week, to the movies or have dinner. But then today he didn't mention it... I just want to do the right thing to keep this going on. I was in a 4-year relationship before, so I don't know how to do this. What would you guys do? How do older men think? He is not pressuring me for sex but it builds up! I would like to have sex with him, but I want this to last and not just be a Tinder hookup... :( what do I do?