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Please don't judge me, gave him a BJ after the second date... Can I text him. I've never done this so soon?

I went on a second date with this guy I met offline. He is 32 I am 24. He took me to a restaurant and we ordered appetizer and he kept insisting in me drinking all of the top shelf mixed drinks they had... so like an idiot I did just about that. I had about 5 of the drinks and could feel myself getting extremely tipsy. Towards the end of the date, he asked what i was doing. He also asked if it would be okay for him to come to my place which wasn't far from the restaurant so he could sober up, since he lives almost an hour away from the restaurant. I said okay... I've NEVER in my life invited a stranger to my home, i was NOT raised this way but I was under the influence so I told him that would be okay. He came over started to massage my feet, I fell asleep next thing i know he's kissing me and removing my clothes. (sorry TMI) He tries to get me in a position to where he can insert his genitals into me however I'm a virgin and i told him not to because I'm waiting before I engage in intercourse. He of course asks me again and i repeat no. So he respectfully backs off, and then he asks if i can give him oral. & I did. Afterwards, we go to my bedroom and we fall asleep. I feel his arm wrapping around my body and he just cuddles me as we fall asleep. He then wakes me up at 5 in the morning and says he is about to leave, just incase I wanted to follow behind him and lock my door. so we exchange "goodbyes" and he leaves. Guys, can i text him, it has now been 15 hours :(

I just want to talk with him. I've never done something like this before and I don't plan to ever again... but would it be okay for me to text him and chat?
Please don't judge me, gave him a BJ after the second date... Can I text him. I've never done this so soon?
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