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We went to the same high school and just talked in class sometimes. Then we ended up going to the same university, and since we moved in 4 weeks ago we have hung out 3-5 times a week. The first couple of weeks I was hesitant, and never made any moves. She is very beautiful and popular, and lots of guys chase her. She also enjoys partying a lot, so I didn't want to get to attached. But I have been rethinking. I think I am falling for her, and it is inevitable. She shoes lots of signs that either mean she is very comfortable around me, or interested in me (she initiates hanging out most the time, sits next to me at dinner (not across), invites me out with her friends (we also hang out alone a lot)). But anyway, the only way to find out if I am in the friendzone is to tell her how I feel. I want to do it in the least awkward way, because I don't want to ruin our friendship if she doesn't feel the same. I don't want to regret not telling her if she gets a boyfriend. So here is what I will do:

When we are walking, I just want to gently grab her hand and sa Then I'll just let her tell me how she feels. If she reciprocates, then awesome. If not, I'll just say I love our frienship and I won't bring it up again.

This has to do with mind games like hard to get where girls: Either interested or not, string a guy along by showing less/no signs of attraction.

In my opinion, a girl who is not straightforward and plays hard to get can hurt much more than a girl I ask out and says "no". I am a creature a honesty. I despise subtlety and have been duped over and over again in my young life that dishonest people are among my worst enemies.

Picture this: You are a guy who is having a crush on a girl who doesn't really like you. Instead of her saying "no", she plays hard to get and acts friendly and you think "hmm, she might be wanting me to chase her". It turns out, she was all along trying to distance herself from you for three months and you didn't know that.

So not only you got rejected, but you wasted so much time trying to know if she was into you or not.

That's the evil of "hard to get". You don't know if she wants the chase or doesn't really like you.

In this situation, if you want to know whether she likes you, be straightforward ask her out, she says "no", you got your answer so early and go on to another girl who might. like you.