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My friend is an abusive relationship, she claims he doesn’t hit her anymore but at the time she didn’t feel like she could leave and was trying to make a way out and had a kinda affair with another guy. She says the abuser is being nice to her now ( which is the abuse cycle) yet she keeps the guy around as a safe haven. He said he doesn’t think she’s a slut for this. She feels scared that she is but is terrified for her life sometimes, or at least has a false imagination of danger all the time since her boyfriend use to beat
her pretty badly. She doesn’t do anything with this guy except. Hang out with him sometimes. Do would u think she was a slut? Would u keep talking to her?

I always hear about abusive relationships, but never friendships.

Two examples:
I had this friend who always used to call me a "dumb bitch" and always put me down and never invited me anywhere. And if people asked her about me she would always pretend like she didn't know who I was. SUBTWEETED me on twitter all the time. And she was a hoe, not gonna lie, ahaha she would let any guy within a 20 meter radius finger her. And she stopped telling me things completely.

2) would constantly embarrass me infront of my crush. Always used to ditch me. Talked shit about me behind my back. Always used to ditch me. Used to hit me. Would low key through insults at me.

This one time we were talking and this girl wanted to hang out wit her (keep in mind, she looked like a full blown crackhead, she dressed like a prositute and she can barely form proper sentences) and I asked "are you really gonna hang out with her?" And she said "why wouldn't I? Do you see who I hang out with anyways" I WAS HER ONLY FRIEND AT THE TIME. She always used to keep secrets from me and guilt me into buying her stuff.

so I was married to an abusive husband, and I became really good friends with this guy, we later ended up admitting our feelings for each other and he told me I was absolutely gorgeous. we decided to just stay friends out of respect for my marriage and I tried to get my husband to sort out his anger, me and this guy stayed friends going for walks etc but never let our feelings get in the way, I tried helping him get a girlfriend, he always said he although he wasn't a vrigin, his next sex he wanted to be his wife ( he is a Christian) anyway forward on a couple of month after having my last straw with my husband we split up and he is out of my life. me and my friend on a walk one evening end up hugging lots and he kisses me head and I can feel we are going to kiss but it doesn't happens but he does say cute things like ' I'd be in a relationship with a woman that has come out of a marriage if I loved her' , then a couple of weeks later we get flirty over Snapchat and then I bump Into him whilst drunk, we start hugging and stuff but next thing he is kissing my neck and touching me he freaks out and steps back then goes back and kisses me and touches me again. when I get back home I ask him what would you do to me he says I'd kiss you. I then don't hear from him for two months, he avoids me in every way possible delete me off Facebook won't reply to my messages. I found out he has been doing coke and ectasy and he keeps trying to get this girl that he turned out when he was sober because ' I am just not attracted to her' (she kept asking him out) I don't get it because after we done our stuff I told him I'm ok with being a casual thing despite our feelings or just staying friends. but he completely ignored me, but then when he gets on his drugs he keeps trying to bed this girl. I know when he gets drunk/drugs he does say I need to bed ' a s*** t'. so why won't he do it with me? The other day we spent untill 5am talking to each other then he just went quiet again xx