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So, I started chatting with a guy. Everything was going well we were getting a bit closer. We talked about sex a lot, more than I'd usually speak with someone I just started talking to. And then he disappeared. For more than a week. Just zero communication. Then he popped back up and I was very hesitant and he convinced me something was wrong with his phone and he had to have it fixed or something. So I said that's a red flag but continued chatting with him.

As he seemed to be interested in me I laid it out flat that there's a guy in my life who I had feelings for and I was trying to distance my feelings since I knew for sure that the guy liked me and wanted me but wasn't capable of loving me or us having a serious relationship (due to his next level work ethic). I told him I honestly don't know what would happen around that guy since my feelings seemed to destroy logic whenever we were in that position where I should say no and tell him to leave me alone. But improvements were happening though. He told me that was fine, he understood I was lonely blah blah blah. Then we started getting to know each other better and once while we were chatting he asked to see a pic of my undies... so I said no ofc. Then boom! Same thing happened again. Disappears for weeeeks.

He's back now and I just don't trust his motives. I always question if he's just being in-genuine. But he is a really nice guy, similar though patterns, and we have good chemistry. But I'm on the fence. The second time he said he left (basically ghosted me) because he was sad about how the other person I had feelings for was close to me and he was far away. The thing is, I have zero feelings for the person I was getting over now, and totally not lured by his charm anymore. But I still don't trust this disappear guy. Tell me your thoughts

As a musician, sometimes I get confused about whether I'm attracted to someone romantically/sexually or if they simply inspire me and/or infatuate me musically. It's hard to explain. It's happened to me many times before and now again: I can't stop thinking about my dance acquaintance.

As a dancer, I like to have a good lead, so it's attractive to me when a guy can lead well. And I like it when they're sexy when they dance. But, I don't know if that's an attraction I have toward the person or toward the art of dancing, or, perhaps, both.

It's not like I only fall for musicians. I've fallen for others with other talents and passions.

I like a guy who has a talent/passion and is good at what he does. So maybe I am really falling for this guy. I don't know.

I don't find him particularly attractive and I honestly don't know much about him except that he's a dancer/dance teacher who's good at leading (in dance).

But when he talks to me he always calls me "senorita" with his latin charms and when he texts me I feel butterflies. I love latin music and dance, so I'm thinking maybe that's the only reason... Maybe...

Last night, he, our dance crew and I attended his goodbye party (he's leaving the US), and I just wanted to dance with him the whole time and would feel jealous when he'd dance with all the other girls there.

He's leaving the country, and I've been really upset about it. At first I truly believed it was just because we have good chemistry when we dance and also because I generally get attached to the people in my life, but after last night I'm not sure if that's all it is...

It doesn't help how he told me I looked "amazing" or "sexy" when I sent him videos of us dancing last night.

Tell me this just seems like a musician thing and nothing real.