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So I've been talking to this guy who's super nice and friendly. Even though he's really quiet, he is known to have many "female friends". When we first talked, we came to an understanding that we weren't looking for a relationship. However, he treats and talks to me like we are together. So last Saturday, he came over. We messed around (a lot of fingering and touching but no sex). I thought he would leave afterwards, but surprisingly he stayed and we talked and watched movies. After leaving, he was still nice and cool. He even texted me all three days after, but not on Wesnesday. I had to initiate conversation, but he would text for awhile and then stop. So today (Thursday), I saw that he read my prior message from yesterday but he did not answer back. He even saw me in the hallway, but didn't say anything to me. I don't know what I did wrong. Maybe I was just the flavor of the week or he found me uninteresting. I don't know. It's just that I kind of like him and guys don't exactly drop into my hands often, so this is frustrating for me to deal with. Can someone please tell me what's going on in his head please?

Were you nervous about your first kiss, first time having sex, getting a BJ/giving oral, fingering/HJ etc?

Like about whether you'd be good or not and stuff.

My bff is a virgin. She is 29 years old. Don't judge her. She is super sweet good Christian girl believes in saving herself.

Last year she decides she wants to be more sexually exploring. She meets a guy she likes and is attracted to and starts to fool around with him. Tells him she's a virgin and won't have sex but wants to explore and do other stuff...

He was fingering her "kind of rough" and it hurt but she was ok. Later he called her to see if she was ok because he saw blood on his finger. She thought it was weird and had never had that Happen before. And wanted to know if I knew what it could be.

I'm pretty sure HE POPPED HER CHERRY!!!

At the time I didn't say anything, just said I didn't know. It's never come up since.

Usually I'm in the tell then truth camp, but I don't know in this case if there's really a point to it or not.

Was I right to keep it to myself or should I have told her the truth?

Should I tell her now? Or never?