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Alright so when my boyfriend (Lets call him B) and I were on our second date we went to starbucks, and his best friend (Lets call him D) was hanging there with some people (so I met him for the first time, not sure if this was planned or not).
We ended up staying and hanging out and since we all share a love of gaming B prompted me to share my ideas for my game room when I get my own place. D then shook Bs hand (I'm guessing because he was impressed and was congratulating him for finding a gamer chick, haha). So I'm pretty sure I had already gained his approval. Since then the three of us had spent a good amount of time together, but last night we all went to a hookah bar, then ended up going back to Ds house to drink.
After we all had a good buzz going we were outside smoking, and D was like "B, B, B, listen to me, you could do anything in your life but nothing would be better than this girl you have here" B was kinda distracted by Ds brother when he said that so he didn't really say anything to it but he smiled and gave me a squeeze. Then later when we were pretty drunk D said "I know it's too soon but I would be very happy if you an B ended up getting married" I'm not sure if B heard that but it just shows how D thinks we're good together. He said other things through the night but the details are a little fuzzy after awhile haha. Anyway I'm wondering what my boyfriend thinks about this, we kinda talked about it and he's happy his friend likes me but I don't know how important it is to him. I know everyones different but in general, how important is it to guys that their friends like/approve of their girlfriend? Also, the stuff he said was pretty intense so is that something he may worry about? His friend wanting to steal me or something? Is it bad that D and I get along so well? If he didn't hear the thing about D being happy if B and I ended up getting married he might not know that he respects our relationship and really wants me to be with B.
Thoughts?

I made plans to meet up with a guy I used to know a few years back and had reconnected with recently via Facebook. We live in two different cities so when we finally set up a time to see each other he told me exactly where to go. When I got there I couldn't help but notice how romantic this place was. We were just meeting for a drink but this lounge was inside a very classy and historic hotel in the city lined with grand ceilings and marble floors. The lounge was dimly lit with candles on the tables. It was truly a beautiful place.

We talked forever.. about anything and everything. Afterward, he paid the check and drove me to my car. We gave each other a lingering hug and he squeezed me a bit tighter before I let go. He stated that I should give him a call next time I'm in the city so we can meet up again.

He also told me his up coming schedule (willingly), I'm assuming to warn me he may be pretty busy for the next few weeks (he is pretty successful), however, he did invite me to show up to some work event he is involved in next week. The thing is... We NEVER stated, not once, whether or not this was going to be considered an official date.

Well... this date was over 2 months ago! He seemed to be the shy type so I gave him a couple of "opportunities" to ask me out again, like, "Hey, I'm going to be in town next week for some work stuff but I would love a reason to stay. Will you be free?" Mind you, this is how I got a date with him in the first place. By being a bit forward and flirty. It was getting me results so I kept doing it. However, it started to feel like he was blowing me off so I stopped texting altogether. I need some perspective. Did I come on too strong for him? If so, is there some way I can reverse the damage? We had such a great time, he's had a crush on me for years, but for some reason I haven't seen him since.

Please help, I'm so confused. I can't seem to let this go :(