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My bf and I broke up about 10 days ago completely out of the blue due to his depression that he's had since 4 months into our relationship (we had dated for a year) and he has been in therapy for it. He had been saying how he felt so much worse than usual the two weeks ish before this happened but he gets more depressive episodes that come every few months and last a few weeks before snapping out of it, so I figured that's what this was. He called me one night out of the blue after he stopped answering me in the middle of a sweet conversation, and he was freaking out saying he couldn't do this anymore and he was so confused and depressed but didn't want to break up. We went on a break and I sent him a long encouraging sweet text a day, but a few days later we broke up. He said he was so depressed, wasn't happy with anything in his life including us, didn't feel in love with me, but wanted to remain best friends because he still sees me in his future and would want to try again? we talked a few times since then and it was light and friendly, but now he's ignoring me everytime I try to contact him (im trying to get my stuff from his house). he's suddenly ignoring me and avoiding me and his friend told me he isn't really talking to anyone, but he asks about me and there's no chance of him wanting to date someone else. I'm just so angry and confused because I want to see him and talk to him and get the story from him bc guys aren't going to be all emotional with each other. This was so out of the blue, just days before he was telling me how I cleared the mess in his head and I meant the world to him and he loved me so much. I asked him when we broke up if he meant those things and he said of course he did. How does that change so quickly? How does he suddenly not love me. He's being so confusing & I hate it. He doesn't know what he wants. I can't even explain how much I love him & how wonderful we were, we adored each other and had the most loving& caring relationship

im 24 years old and never had a boyfriend. I had this impression tha guys were scared of me because of my somewhat dominant and strong personality. Honestly i had a thing for older men because I think that they are the only ones capable of handling and understanding me unlike guys of my age. I also tend to get squimish when I feel that someone likes me. Anyway, there was a certain guy (a wee bit older) who had befriended me recently. At first I ignored him completely thinking that he would stop at some point. HE gave me physical signs and flirted with me at to the point that he would grab my hand and drag me to some corner during our breaks back then. I know that a lot of people had noticed it thats why they were teasing us a daughter - father tandem. He did mention one time that to make sure that nothing will change between us that it would be best if we would stay friends. I noticed that after that he stpped being too physical to me. sometimes he would give me a ride back home and would visit me in my house and would chat with me for hours. Sometimes he would drag me somewhere else. This kind of thing went on until today. He would ask me from nowhere things and would fid an excuse to visit me during our rest days. Although I noticed that everytime he would ask to see me he would always ask me to do him some favor. Which actually annoys me and confuses me to what his real intentions were. There were times that he would be sweet to me and would treat me as a princess. I admit that I like him already but it still makes me wonder what he really feels towards me. Does he only see me as a friend, some kind of daughter or does he only do this because he needs something from me? Or does this show that he likes me but only afraid to tell me becuase of our age difference? People say that I should ask him, but Im afraid f losing him.. What o you guys think? HELP!!!