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We dated in high school for almost 3 years. We were each other's first love. We ended up breaking up because we were super immature and hurtful to each other.

6 years later...

We reconnected, he's my personal trainer now. This has given us the time to talk and squash things between one another. We both broke up with our significant others over the summer as well.

It's crazy how life can be sometimes. The last person I expected to ever come around to, has now become a friend. We will train and then afterwards hang out.

There are moments though when I feel like I feel something more for him. I don't know if he feels the same, but he has expressed to me how I motivate him and how I'm not as meaningless to him as he's led on. He's always been a guarded person, and it has always been hard to get him to open up. But it's nice to be able to laugh with him one moment and then the next, have deep conversations about our lives.

I don't know where this is going. A part of me wants it to go somewhere. I don't want to lose his friendship though.

Should I be honest with him? Or should I let our friendship stay a friendship and not bother?

So I've liked him on and off and he liked me a lot. We locked eyes with each other from across the room for a long time. He was flirty but always remained gentlemanly and sweet. He'd check me out a lot even when I could see it and stand close to me. We did talk once and complimented my personality a lot and seemed to really dislike my guy friend. This has been going on for 2 years. I was too shy to show interest. (i only see him once a week if im lucky) However I told some people about him. They're immature and gossip a lot so he probably heard about it. but he's mature so he wouldn't trust everything they say. So lately instead of the usual flirty looks and smiles he acts like I don't exist. I walked over to him and his friends and he didn't even look at me once. He's a very confident and talkative guy but he's quiet around me. The next time I saw him I was standing on the other side of the room and he was with his friends. Nobody else was with me. But then He walked over next to me and started cleaning something behind me and I felt him staring. His friend came over to talk to him so I left. Today I was standing of in a corner by myself and he walked over and stood really close. Wth?

Hi guys. So this happened a year ago when i was 18. My 23 years old female cousin along with my aunt came over from a different country, stayed at our family house and i was to give my bed to them. Since i didn't have any friends and i got along pretty well with her, i would always talk to her. I am a pretty playful person and dont think before committing actions (you can say im a little kid at that time and very immatured), when i see her sit on the sofa i would my wrap my arms around her, when im bored i would knock on her door, come in go on the bed and started tickling her, slapping her on the face mutiple times and wrestling with her. And the whole house would rock. She kind of try to resist but ended up doing the same thing to me. This kind of became like a daily basic thing (not all the time). She did got angry once so i stopped doing all of this because i went too far with slapping very hard on the face and it was me who starts it. I thought it was pretty fun and she was like a sister/best friends to me i could say. But now thinking back to it, im like "omg why did i do that?" , "will she be traumatized now?", "was i mentally perverted at that time?". These thoughts in my head make me feel disgusting and makes me think if i did any harm with her thinking.

What do you guys think?