Search Results: is she trying to string me along

There are a group of people (mostly women) who get off on the idea of people showering them with attention. So let's look at case of women since most of them seem to be within that group:

1. A lot of them will give a guy their number, and string him along with false hope that she's interested in him. Many of them will flake on dates but make up an excuse as to why so the guy stays hooked until he get frustrated and give up.

2. Many of them are very narcissistic and get joys out of rejecting good looking guys just so they can brag about it. In fact Mia Khalifa is a good example of such a woman. She rejects Drake advances and then decides to post his text conversation with her on twitter so people can see.

3. Many women will give all the signals and make a guy take the risk of approaching her only to humiliate him once he plays his hand of interest that she is not interested in him like that.

4. Some girls even go so far as to humiliate men who try to act flirty with them over text and either show it to their friends for a good laugh or post it on the internet so people can make fun of them.

With all that being said it's a wonder why young men are still approaching women today when they have to go through such mind field of possibly being screwed over. And this also hurt women too because the girls who genuinely want a date/relationship will have a harder time guys approaching and not thinking she is stringing him along also. No wonder men these days have a short patient to take things slow and want sex fast because they think we are playing them if we don't drop our panties immediately.

This guy and I have been arguing for the past month. It's annoying and I'm just done with it.
Quick Summary:
- We hung out and he told me he really liked me and wanted to get to know me better.
- He disappeared for 3-4 days, I reached out, he still ignored me.
- I confronted him and told him goodbye, he reached back out and told me I was assuming and he's busy.
- We talked, I apologized, he was very angry and defensive, ignored me for 2 weeks, however he was online dating website.
- He contacted me again saying he was thinking and he's sorry for not reaching out when busy. Blamed me again for being irrational and unhealthy when arguing.
- I apologized again and asked him what does he want? Does he want to genuinely get to know me? A friend?
- Thought about it that same night and I already knew the answer and things weren't adding up. I didn't want to deal with him anymore so I told him don't answer and to delete my number.
- He replied saying I was unhealthy and irrational again. That I freak out. That he cares but I have a bad thinking pattern.
- I called him to get this situation cleared. Tired of texting because it's making everything worse. He didn't answer. Says he's working and he is down to talk but not when I'm acting like this. I calmy replied saying to reach out to me when he's ready to TALK OVER THE PHONE, rather than texting.

He has not reached out yet. We don't even live in the same city and this guy keeps trying to string me along. I'm sick of it. I tried leaving twice and he keeps coming back. I'm a pushover. Yeah, my argument skills need approving, but I know he's playing me. I'm standing up for myself. I have a gut feeling so deep and his stories dont match. He says he's crazy busy but he's been online for his dating profile. He is stringing me along. I tried all possible ways to talk about this with him and to see what he wants but he keeps blaming me and saying im unhealthy. What do I do?

So my guy told me he really liked me one night via text. Next day he text me in the morning and then afternoon. Next day he only texted once. Next two days after that no text. He says he would be busy so I didn't worry about it. Next day after that, no text but I had some news I wanted to share so I sent a small text. He replied immediately saying he's working and asked if I was. I replied and then he stopped. I figured he's busy. Next day, no reply. I sent him a text that night that I felt he's playing games. He got defensive and blew up on me and said its all in my head, I assumed, he's busy and that he doesn't want to deal with an emotional person like me that I have no evidence and sorry I was hurt by this but he doesn't deserve a response like that. I said whoa I was just telling you how I felt, I assumed the worst and I apologized multiple times. I told him girls think differently. If we don't hear from a guy often we get defensive. Then I told him you seem you made up your mind already, I won't bother you, I really did like you so thanks for the closure. Yeah I was wrong and admitted it, however he just attacked me the whole time and didn't try to work it out. I apologized multiple times about it however I still stood by what I felt, which was I was strung along. Why get so defensive about it? Why call quits so easily? That shows me he never really liked me in the first place.